Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi friends. I recently found out I am pregnant (YAY) we started trying but thought it would take longer... turns out it was our time! So I will be 8 WEEKS pregnant at my wedding. Not concerned about...

Hello! I was married March 9th and had a gorgeous wedding. My sister in law got engaged last November. We just found out my kids (my husbands step children but very much like his own) aren’t invited...

I'm really looking forward to having my father walk me down the aisle for my ceremony, but I'm not comfortable with the language "Do you give this bride away?" Does anyone have suggestions for an...

This will be my second marriage, FH first. Is it frowned upon to have a second shower? I had a very small one the first time around. My MOH asked me and I initially said no, but I am reconsidering....

We have decide to forego having alcohol at the wedding due to my side not being able to be civilized when a little booze is mixed. Also due to the tension between his mother and father, the tension...

I'm having problems with one of my bridesmaid and its gotten to the point to where I just don't want her involved any more because I'm anticipating her trying to make the day about her. To start, my...

Hi! I am planning on getting married at a beautiful venue that is huge! There is outside seating for a the dinner and then a large ballroom. The venue sells the place as having dinner in one area and...

Hello! I'm newly engaged and we have just started looking at venues. We are paying for everything ourselves and our budget is very small but it's important to me that things look nice and pulled...

So i saw a different strand, but i thought i should go further in depth in my personal situation. My father passed away in 2016. He had MS for 15 years, which left him wheelchair bound for about 10...

I feel really bad about it but I honestly don’t feel excited for the wedding. There’s been so much drama surrounding all of the planning and a lot of the wedding&reception isn’t even stuff that we...

How did y’all decide on your bridesmaids for destination weddings? I asked ALL of my bridesmaids a couple weeks ago and they all said yes, but now one is saying she won’t be able to afford it. I...

Hey all, I have recently been asked (and accepted) my friend asking me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. My concern is that I am trans woman, but still very much identified male by most people. I am...

I completely forgot I'm going to a 50 year wedding anniversary renewal of vows on Saturday. They're extended family (my grandmas cousins), and they didn't register anywhere. It's going to be a full...

I would love recommendations as to what to get my husband for our 1 year wedding anniversary that's coming up. I already gave him beautiful airplane cufflinks from Tiffany for his birthday in May...

What all did your Bridesmaids pay for ????? Dress Hair Makeup Bachelorette party Bridal shower

I am the supervisor at my job. Many of my employees have gone above and beyond to make this wedding happen for me with my hectic schedule (some are bridesmaids, one is my planner and another is...

My wedding is no kids with the exception of nursing infants. Really, the only person that this affects is my cousin, who has a toddler. She'll be coming in from out of town and asked if I knew any...

I have a young son as well as having a flower girl and ring bear at the wedding so obviously I am inviting them. All of my family members and wedding party live out of state and have children. I feel...

We invited 115 people to our wedding and only about 65 will be attending. Most of our guests are from out of town, so I guess that plays a big part. I'm just feeling really sad and unimportant to...

Hello- My son lives about 800 miles away, and has recently announced that he is engaged. The wedding will be held near where he lives, and across the border in Canada. I don't like to travel very...