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Can you have two best men?

Mikel, on August 30, 2011 at 6:04 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 17

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My fiance is going to have 4 GM, but doesn't want to choose between 2 of them to be his best man. I keep telling him he can have them both be best men. Anyone else have more than 1 best man?

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Latest activity by Cheryl, on May 20, 2019 at 10:26 AM

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SamRick · on August 30, 2011 at 6:06 PM
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My FH is having 2 best men. That's because I am having a matron & maid of honor.
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SamRick · on August 30, 2011 at 6:07 PM
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Jessica · on August 30, 2011 at 6:40 PM
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You can do what you want!

I'm having two MOH, but my groom is only having 1 Best-Man. And that Best-man is actually a woman!
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Jamie · on August 30, 2011 at 6:41 PM
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Of course. FH's friend had 2, FH got to sign the certificate, the other one got the "label".
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LaQuisha · on August 30, 2011 at 8:24 PM
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My fh is having two also because i have a maid and a matron of honor so it works out good
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Patricia · on August 30, 2011 at 8:26 PM
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Yes you can
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Shannon · on August 30, 2011 at 8:38 PM
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My FH and I aren't having a BM or MOH - just regular GM and BM because we were having the same issues of choosing between everyone
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Megan · on August 30, 2011 at 9:04 PM
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My FH is having a best man and best woman.
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Rebecca · on August 30, 2011 at 9:07 PM
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We are in the same boat!! FH couldn't choose between them so we have two best men and one maid of honor. I think everyone can do it exactly how they want on their wedding day their are no set in stone rules!
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Tammy · on August 30, 2011 at 9:08 PM
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I have a maid and matron of honor, but there's only one best man. I don't think anyone cares, honestly. I did try to split up 'special' responsibilities between my two ladies so they'd both feel important.
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Jennifer · on August 30, 2011 at 9:13 PM
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Were having two best men...but even so like the others said do what you want...its your day...if you wanted all 4 of em to be best men..thats your decision!! the best part of planning your wedding....everything you want goes just because its what you want!
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Rhonda · on August 31, 2011 at 6:48 PM
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I am going to have two Matron of Honors but I do have a question. One is married and the other is divorced. Is the divorced one still considered a matron because she does have a child?
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Jamie · on August 31, 2011 at 6:53 PM
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We had two best men - one for him, one for me. =)
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· on August 31, 2011 at 6:58 PM
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FH is having 2- originally they were both supposed to be standing with him- but unfortunately one of them is getting deployed in January and probably won't be back in time for the wedding :-( so sad.
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Lynnie · on March 13, 2017 at 4:32 PM
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Absolutely! You can do whatever you want! I had my sister as my Maid of Honor, and my sister-in-law as my Matron of Honor!

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June2020 · on May 17, 2019 at 3:33 PM
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Do what you want,, i cant chose my maid of honor so all of them are my bridesmaids lmao. my fiance is doing the same and they can fight over who wants to toast at the reception or all take turns
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Cheryl · on May 20, 2019 at 10:26 AM
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Sure! We are having two.
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