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mrswinteriscoming
What traditions do you think are outdated and should no longer apply in 2021?
mrswinteriscoming, on May 25, 2021 at 1:20 AM

Traditions vary significantly depending on where you’re from, how you were raised, what your ethnic/cultural/religious background is and so forth. What traditions and/or rules of etiquette do you...

Florida Marlins, May 28, 2021 25 1,818
Amber
How long for wedding preview photos?
Amber, on May 27, 2021 at 2:04 AM

My wedding photographer is amazing and was fantastic on the day. However it’s been over 2 weeks and we haven’t got a preview or sneak peak of photos. I’m disappointed as my husband and I have pretty...

Amber, May 28, 2021 8 1,286
Mcclave
No Kids Rule
Mcclave, on May 5, 2021 at 9:42 PM

We don’t want to have kids at the wedding but we’re getting pushback from family already. Our guestlist for a wedding next July is currently at 185. My cousins on my dads said are all out of state...

Mcclave, May 27, 2021 42 2,422 1
Lacey
Invitation Wording
Lacey, on May 27, 2021 at 3:42 PM

Hi everyone! So we are having a very small, intimate wedding consisting of our son, our wedding party and our parents, totalling 25 people. We are having our ceremony, passed hors d'oeuvres and then a...

Rosie, May 27, 2021 4 536
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Bridemaids or Not
Ana, on May 21, 2021 at 12:52 PM

Hello! We just recently booked our wedding in April for September 2021! I know it's insane😳. I would love to hear some opinions on my bridesmaids situation. I am not having traditional bridesmaids, no...

Ana, May 27, 2021 14 799 1
Happily Married
Help!!!!! Does the reception line come off tacky?
Happily Married, on May 27, 2021 at 11:23 AM

We were trying to convey that we are having an “adult only” reception by including it in our details cards. I know the spacing might be a little off, but does this reception line come off tacky? I...

Happily Married, May 27, 2021 14 759
Sarah
Bridesmaid's Gifts
Sarah, on May 25, 2021 at 2:41 PM

My wedding party is small, only two bridesmaids and no maid of honor. What gifts have you given or have seen that I can give my bridesmaids that they will actually use and enjoy or will be a unique...

Veronica, May 27, 2021 5 759
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Guest List Question
TT, on May 27, 2021 at 12:51 PM

If I invited someone to my Bachelorette party who didn't come, do I also need to invite her to the wedding? Backstory: I have a friend who lives out of state who I invited to my Bachelorette party...

Samantha, May 27, 2021 6 530
Jennifer
Stress Bomb 3 days before the wedding
Jennifer, on May 26, 2021 at 10:50 AM

We are having a small wedding. Less than 50 people, We are having a plated dinner and we are 3 days out!. I just had 2 guest cancel on my last minute! What do I do? Do I try and fill those spots,...

Christy, May 27, 2021 13 938
Melody
Nerves man... Ruined my photos!
Melody, on May 26, 2021 at 1:59 AM

I should have waited to do Bridal portraits until after I did the first look with my groom... All of the pictures before then, I hate because I was overrun with anxiety and I just needed my hubby! If...

Melody, May 27, 2021 9 865
Jessica
Who gets gifts?
Jessica, on May 26, 2021 at 10:19 PM

So I already have a grey gift planned for my mother in law. But I’m not sure in what the etiquette is for this? Do I need to give a gift to all parents? Or does my fiancé needs to give a gift to my...

Lisa, May 27, 2021 5 598
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Gifts for Flower Girl
Trinity, on April 17, 2021 at 9:23 AM

What should I get the 2 years old flower girl? My wedding date is 1 day after her birthday.

Amber, May 27, 2021 6 547
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Do you need to let hotel know you're using it as a bridal party suite?
Ashley, on May 26, 2021 at 12:23 PM

Hi all! Not sure if this is the right forum for this, so apologies. I am getting married in Jersey City, NJ next May. My venue does not have a bridal suite for getting ready, so my plan is to rent a...

Cool, May 26, 2021 8 1,388
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How to invite after initial invites?
Twithhoney, on May 25, 2021 at 4:32 PM

So basically my Fiance's family have all been declining their wedding invites because they "don't want to travel to the middle of nowhere." This wouldn't be an issue if it was a dozen people, but...

Judith, May 26, 2021 16 3,080 1
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Friend's Wedding
Veronica, on May 26, 2021 at 1:03 PM

I'm wondering if it would make me a bad friend if my husband and I left my friend's reception shortly after dinner. Here is some background info that might help. My friend was supposed to get married...

Cool, May 26, 2021 8 1,024
Jessica
How to Write Wedding Thank You Card?
Jessica, on May 26, 2021 at 11:08 AM

Hello WeddingWire couples!! We are now officially newlyweds (woohoo!! 🎉) and are ready to start working on thank yous for our wedding gifts. Do you know what to say in wedding thank you cards? We’re...

Emily, May 26, 2021 4 9,344 2
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Transportation from ceremony to reception for significant others
Carissa, on May 23, 2021 at 4:02 PM

Does the wedding party transportation from the ceremony to the reception have to include the SO's of the bridesmaids/groomsmen? The DJ we are hoping to book also offers transportation at a great...

Judith, May 26, 2021 17 891
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Kids-need help with polite wording
Ladyish, on May 25, 2021 at 11:52 PM

Hey everyone! FH and I are having a "beach kegger" vibe reception in November. The reception will be held at our friend's home who have a teenager(16) and toddler (3) . While we really do not want our...

Courtney, May 26, 2021 5 493
Alyssa
Is it rude to ask about bringing someone?
Alyssa, on March 24, 2019 at 7:37 PM

I’m invited to a friend’s wedding that is 8.5 hours away from me. I just got the invitation in the mail and it doesn’t say anything about a +1. I’m not in a relationship but I was hoping I could bring...

Jenna, May 26, 2021 38 3,988
Doing_it_over
"I Do" over! Our 2013 wedding was a DISASTER!
Doing_it_over, on April 16, 2014 at 8:47 AM

I got married Aug 3rd 2013 and everything that could've went wrong in fact DID go wrong. So my Hubby and I would love to do it over. Something small and simple so that when we reflect on our wedding...

Melody, May 26, 2021 14 211
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