Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I need some good guidance on reception tipping: Who, and how much? 1) Venue coordinator. She's in charge of making sure enough tables are in there, coordinating with the bar and the caterer, etc. 2)...

Do you have to tip after your wedding or can you wait a few days or when you get back form your honey moon to assets how you felt everyone did and then tip?

I know there's a ton of questions on here about tipping but I couldn't find any definitive answers so thought I'd double check. First, when did you all tip your vendors? On the day of the wedding or...

I'm about to order my invitations, and since most of the people coming to the rehearsal dinner are coming from out of town, I thought it would make sense to mail the rehearsal dinner invitations at...

My FH and I got engaged 7/19/16 .. My dad sudden passed 12/29/16. My dad and I chose Butterfly Kisses as our song to dance to but I felt funny dancing with someone else to it. I chose You should be...

Help! We hired a wedding service in PCB to do our wedding and it includes photography of the wedding ceremony. We are in need of someone to come to our condo and take pics of the wedding party getting...

I am having my wedding reception on my anniversary since we wasnt able to have a large celebration due to covid. Since we arent having a wedding ceremony we are debating what is an ideal time to start...

So we received a package in the mail from friends of my FFIL. Its a wedding gift and they gave us a card with a significant amount of cash and a household gift. Ive been with my fiancé for the past 10...

I’m beginning to plan a micro wedding of approximately 30 guests! I am only inviting about 6 of my friends, who would’ve been my bridal party if I was going to do a large wedding. We’re opting for no...

Yall. Please tell me to get over it if you think that's what I should do. But here's the deal. We booked our photographer back in October, I knew nothing about wedding planning or what I would like in...

Long story short...we invited a couple who is friends with my parents. The couple then asked to bring their adult daughter and boyfriend who were not on the guest list. My mom agreed without...

I'm the maid of honor for my best friends wedding. There's only two other bridesmaids, one who's a sister of the groom and one who's another friend of the bride (neither of which I know super well). I...

Got engaged on Xmas 2020, shortly after I started planning and set a date for 11/12/2021. I still haven’t officially asked my two besties to be in my wedding. We were just going to have our kids in...

Hi anyone who reads this! I want to start with the caveat that I personally just needed to vent my frustrations (long post) about my upcoming wedding this August. Any advice is greatly appreciated as...

My maid of honor isn't happy with her dress. She bought the dress way back in September and said it was made of with a cheap fabric (all of my bridesmaids have had no complaints). At the time she was...

FH and I are automatically including significant others as 'plus ones' for our wedding and will either specifically note the name of the significant other on the invitation if we know them, or if we...

Quick question, I'm slightly confused. Do I get gifts for both my parents AND both my fiance's parents? And does he do the same for all 4 as well? Or do we go in on gifts together for each? I'm kind...

My FH proposed with a ring pop and I loved it! Now, we are shopping around for my engagement ring. I've never been a diamond type so I'm exploring other options. Does anyone have a morganite ring and...

Hi guys. So long story short, with Covid and having to cancel the big wedding we have turned our big wedding into a micro wedding. Basically my moh and bridesmaids says they can’t attend. So we...

So I asked my MOH in December to be MOH for my wedding in October. To keep things vague, she's had a rough year and the guy she had been seeing for a couple months passed away tragically recently. I...