Hi there! I have a situation and I'm wondering if I should say something to my friend. She and I have been friends since college, almost 10 years. We've been super close, taken trips together, I've supported her through mental health issues, and in general gone through a lot together. She recently got engaged and mentioned to me that her fiance wanted to have a large number of groomsmen and she didn't know how she'd scrape up that many bridesmaids. She asked me for help with all kinds of things, including getting the favors together and I even went with her to pick up her wedding dress and figure out alterations, etc.
Then, her wedding website went live and it only had three bridesmaid's listed, her sisters and best friend since childhood So, I just figured she had talked her fiance down. Then the wedding party disappeared from the website. I got an invite to her bridal shower and found out that there were several out of town friends and college friends who were bridesmaids. And over the next few days, she even started complaining to me over text to me about regretting asking one girl to be a bridesmaid. But never said anything to me about leaving me out or giving me a reason that she didn't ask me. I'm really hurt by how she handled it, especially when she told me that she didn't know how she'd find that number of bridesmaids but apparently I didn't even make the expanded cut.
Any thoughts or advice?