Discussions I've participated in

I’m having a hard time deciding what I want to do with my name... I’ve been pretty set on not changing it completely but maybe adding his last name after mine. I’m semi sure that I do not want to...

We are having a cocktail hour with 4 different apps from 6:30-7:30, followed by dinner at 7:45, then cake at 9. Our reception ends at midnight. Do you think it is worth it to offer a late night snack...

Does anyone have experience with a kings table? I don't really like the idea of a head table because of the size of our bridal party and their SO's, but I feel like a sweetheart table is too...

FH and I are paying for 80-90% of our wedding, so in our eyes we are hosting. We plan to give a quick welcome/thank you toast, but that is it. My dad wants to give a small toast too. FH doesn't like...

I am trying very hard to not be upset, but my 110 guest list is down to, if I'm lucky, 50 people. My fiance's home town is 6 hours from mine. We picked a venue, a nice hotel, in a city that is very...

Let me preface this by saying, I’ve only been engaged two months and we are having at least a two year engagement 😂 so I know I’m being dramatic! So please don’t tell me so lol. I’m just feeling...

So yesterday was our RSVP deadline and we have gotten quite a few declines that we weren't expecting. It makes me sad because we had to cut a few people from the guest list who we really wanted to...

I am considering hyphenating my last name, but I have heard it can be an administrative pain in the butt. For those of you who chose a hyphenated last name, do you regret it? I'm especially hoping to...

I have maybe a dozen couples coming from out of town. If I do welcome bags for them at the hotel, do I do them for all of the other guests that live in town? I was thinking something basic like water,...

Is it weird that I want to get ready alone on my wedding day? Has anyone else done this? I really love the people in my bridal party, but I am also a really private person and the thought of getting...

Hi I was wondering does the venue and church address have to be on the wedding invitation or can I just put city and state? I prefer for it to have less wording but I’m not sure what is considered...

If our groomsmen will be in tuxes and the bridesmaids in full length dresses, do the moms need to wear full length dresses? On the one hand, I would like everyone to be dressed at the same level of...