Discussions I've participated in

My fiance & I are from NY & live in NY but we’re getting married in PA. How would we go about that? We want someone from our family to marry us. Do we need an actual officiant or how would we...

I'm 20 days away from my wedding and I'm trying to wrap up all the final details. I keep thinking of things that I could do - some still possible in the limited time left. Curious see if anyone has...

Hello Everyone! My fiance and I are getting eloped in Hawaii, we are then having a reception only when we get back for friends and family in November. I am having trouble coming up with the menu for...

What did you and your entourage wear to get hair/makeup done? Button up shirt or hoodie and sweatpants or leggings or button up pjs or something else? What did you serve to eat during that time? Door...

My fiance and I want to exit around 10 because we leave for our honeymoon early the next day so we are trying to figure out the timeline for the day. We are getting married next September so the...

When my older sister got married, my mom was upset that my sister and her partner opened their wedding gifts with their friends and not with her. She thought it was rude and that it’s expected to open...

I am 31 and my fiance is 29, we both can't wait to have kids and a family of our own. However, we go back and forth on the subject, we would love to focus on our marriage for a year but feel like with...

This might be a dumb question but if you wrote your vows for your partner or are planning on doing so, did you handwrite them? Type them? Have something special to carry them or preserve them in? I...

Hi so I'm getting married in September but I'm on ssdi my fiance isn't and I was wondering can you use some of your social security benefits to help save for the wedding

I'm doing a little research. In the near future, I plan to write an article about whether the popularity of lab-grown diamonds and moissanites has affected the cost of engagement rings. Previously,...

Hello! My RSVP deadline has recently passed. I reached out to multiple people one week in advance to let them know the deadline was approaching, specifically putting the rsvp date. Many people did not...

I am wondering if my fiancé and I should start trying for a baby before the wedding. I am 36 years years old and he is 38. Our wedding is in five months, but having a family is very important to us. I...

Hi all! I have 4 bridesmaids wanting to get their hair done. My hairstylist is alotting 45 minutes per bridesmaid and about 2 hours and 15 mins for me. My photographer arrives at 12pm but I also...

My fiancé is studying PT and has over 250k in student loans and accruing 40 bucks in interest a day.. Currently he is planning a 30k wedding. My parents gifted us 12k for a wedding gift(honeymoon...

Just about to start looking into our wedding cake. I really don't want a big cake. Did you guys have a lot of cake left over.I want a small cake and fondue fountain. Oh... the joys of planning 🙂...

Hello Good People, I have a quick question. Would it be appropriate to ask a photographer/videographer for an ID when paying for their services? Do photographers/videographers provide? Thanks

Super torn for family style vs plated- roughly the same price. Would love any feedback from people who have done both. TYIA!

Hello. I am getting married in October. I bought my dress offline and it's strapless with a corset back. I have tried on a very similar dress, but when I tried it on I was wearing a bra. I am a plus...

Hi! New here and hoping for advice. I’m getting married early April. I am planning to book a flight to see family mid-May and want to book flights while there are seats available. I have to book with...

So my FH finally decided he wants to get married - he’s the kind of guy who just never saw the point in it. We’ve been together for almost 10 years and I’m beyond excited… and he’s getting pretty...