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I’m getting married in September. My fiance is 29 and I’m 26. We are both nurses. My fiancé’s dad is a doctor and her mom is physical therapist. They are upper middle class. My parents are divorced....

Hi! I have been with my boyfriend for a little under two years (our anniversary is in April), and while I understand that it's not that long, we are in our mid-30s (I'm 36, turning 37 this year, and...

My FH's mother died when he and his brother (his only bio sibling) were 11 and 12. When FH was 19, his father got remarried to a widow who met me through a church support group that was focused on...

We were originally going to have our rule for kids being "only close family", so we could have our nieces and nephews and that's it. However 2 people in the bachelor party that are friends have 4 kids...

We have a family member performing our wedding. She lives and is ordained in West Virginia. Virginia laws are SUPER strict - she cannot officially sign our marriage certificate. Virginia does not...

Hi, We are having many flower girls and ringbears, two junior bridesmaids and two junior groomsmen in our wedding. We also have a MOH and BM, but we are not sure how we should do the seating...

My bridesmaids are all picking out their own dresses, but the color has to be sage. I have one bridesmaid that doesn't want to wear a dress, but I also don't want a full blown suit. What are some...

I am 5 months away from getting married and I still haven't picked a honeymoon spot I'm so indecisive I don't want to do the traditional beach scenery I want to go like to the mountains see some snow...

Hi all! It's been awhile since I've posted on here. My lovely husband of 3.5 years lost his wedding ring today on the beach. It was originally a silver band around ~$800. We now have a 4 month...

My fiance and I have been together for 3 years. He’s very close with his little sister who’s planning to get married in 2025. A few months ago, his sister asked her brother (my fiance’) to stand up...

Hello all! My fiancée and I are trying to cut costs as much as possible (like many of you, I'm sure), which means there'll be a LOT of DIYing for our wedding. I'm actually excited about it, because...

Is it now in 2025 acceptable to request your guest wear only certain colors to your wedding? I will do so , I've just never been told on an invitation before to do so.

My partner and I have a mixture of men and women on each side of our wedding party and our wedding colors are teal and magenta/dark fuschia/berry (whatever you want to call that family of colors)....

Okay so our reception is outdoors on a lanai over looking Jacksonville Beach the end of March early April. Do you think I need heaters? It could be low 60s worst case scenario high 50s. But it's...

I've always wanted to do a plated dinner for our wedding. However, it would cost us $2,300 more to do a plated vs buffet-style dinner. We did request formal attire and are getting married on...

I've been doing research for months on what seasons I would prefer, colors, etc but I know one tricky thing will be the guest list. My main choices would only consist of my parents, grandparents, and...

Open discussion for season preferences: My fiancé and I are not huge fans of the heat, hence why personally, I would exclude spring and summer, but we love fall, considering that we met in October,...

Hi everyone!! My fiancé and I are running into an issue right now. We both have our wedding parties picked out, but we cannot pick an MOH/ Best Man. Our wedding party consists of family members and...

So I never thought about this before it came up on a medical form. They ask you to choose Miss, Ms., or Mrs. I am married (so a Mrs.), but I did not take my husband‘s last name. So if I choose the...