Discussions I've participated in

My husband and I are invited to a wedding and we’re not sure how to indicate that he may not be able to make it, due to health concerns. He wants to come with, but knows there is a chance his health...

We always wanted to do a cross-country roadtrip as our honeymoon. It's the same as my parents did actually, & my husband loved the idea just as quickly as I always had. He excitedly asked if I...

My fiancé has a group of about 9 friends that we planned on inviting to the wedding (save the dates have been sent). Unfortunately, they seem to have cut FH off from their friend group in the past...

Whether as a former bride or a guest attending someone else’s wedding. If it did run late, how long after being seated did you (or the other bride) walk down the aisle?

I was reading this on another website and it made absolutely no sense. If you have a concern why would you keep quiet and not ask the bride? Getting in touch on the wedding day to hash out problems is...

Has any fair gal had luck with natural tanning?? I am naturally super white and would like my legs in my wedding photos to look even (prone to some light bruising) with some color (rather than...

Hi everyone! Wondering what your opinions on bachelorette trips are. My bridal party is planning one for me and my sister-in-law (bridesmaid) can’t make it because she’ll have a newborn baby (I 100%...

My wedding Friday was absolutely amazing! But my photographer was so incredibly rude that when we’ve talked to family, the bridal party, and multiple guests they have commented on how rude the wedding...

I can't even believe I'm writing this, this is more a rant than an actual post... I'm somewhere between horrified and laughing like a crazy person. I even remember responding to someone else's post on...

So, I have bought a GIANT ballgown, and my main goal is to have the tiniest, most snatched waist possible. I own a corset, and can get down to about a 24.5 inch waist with it on, but it sits too high...

Any weight lifters here? I can’t decide whether to bulk right now and cut 4-5 months before the wedding or just do maintenance for now and go back to the regular lifting cycle after the wedding. I’m...

Just something fun for a Friday! Describe your wedding venue/vision/theme using only emojis: are you getting married on a beach 🏖️? In a church ⛪? Using various shades of purple 💜 as your wedding...

This experience/event won't change how you interact with the bride & groom in the future (or maybe it did), but that moment made you think "Really? Everything was going great until THAT happened"...

So I have an autoimmune disease which is strongly triggered by processed sugars and grains. I have yet to find a bakery that does grain-free, sugar-free baking. My cousin has a severe nut allergy...

Our photographer's style of photography is that he takes photos 'in-the-moment' meaning that his photos appear more natural and relaxed than some wedding photos I've seen - i.e. nothing looks like it...

I know a lot of people have alcohol at their weddings, but I'm really on the fence. When my fiance and I started planning our wedding we started no alchohol because his great aunt and uncle are sober...

My venue is 3 hours from me, in a remote area so I only have two florist options. One is out of my budget so I’m going with the 2nd. They gave me a detailed email at first and asked me questions, and...

Our caterer offers a "dessert parade" as part of their main package with mini tarts, popsicles, cookies, and such. My fiancé and I have just been planning to do this and then have a small sweetheart...

In hindsight, what do you wish that you had done that you overlooked or ignored? Is there a last minute purchase you should have gone for but forgot?