I can't even believe I'm writing this, this is more a rant than an actual post... I'm somewhere between horrified and laughing like a crazy person. I even remember responding to someone else's post on this forum, that they shouldn't care if their FMIL wears a white dress because it will only reflect badly on her, and yet here I am and I just can't stop this from going through my head all the time.
So my FMIL has asked me some time ago if I have any preferences regarding her dress for our wedding, and I said she should wear whatever she likes - and I really meant it, I don't really care. I didn't say "don't wear white" because that's something that - to me - is obvious. So then she went and ordered a custom made dress and I forgot all about it until I talked to my fiance's aunt today and she said that she's seen this dress and it's floor length and all white with tiny blue details on the bodice... I don't know what to think about it. Is she trying to make a statement? I don't think so, she's not really that kind of person, I would know if she did not like me and I think she does. So why do it, why would anyone order a white dress for their son's wedding? Especially since I've never seen her wearing anything white, so it's not even that it's her favourite colour. At this point I'm thinking about asking my aunt to give a waiter money to spill some red wine all over that dress and I'm ashamed of even considering it, but seriously, why can't I stop obsessing over this dress?
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