Discussions I've participated in

Hi everyone!! We’re debating on whether or not we should have a videographer for our wedding. Part of us feels we’d watch it once and never again.... but it may be nice for the moments we miss...

I’m in a bit of a dilemma. FH and I are getting married in my grandparents backyard in 3 weeks (yay!) It’s an Immediate family only minimony due to covid and My grandmas health declining. We’re still...

What are good gifts to give the bridesmaid? And it is okay to give them all the same gift?

Hi everyone! So I’m having a little difficulty. My bridesmaids are wearing a long dress and I have said that I would like them to wear something flat and gave 3 options of flats, a sandal, and...

Hi all! So...we have to postpone the wedding. I was notified today that our venue is closed (because of the virus) and won't reopen until a week and half after our original date. We have notified our...

My FH thinks that videography is cheesy and a waste. I personally have seen some gorgeous wedding videos though and kind of like the idea of having a video along with pictures to remember the date....

For those of you that have head two people (dad/stepdad) walk you down the asile. How did you do it? Did you start with one? Where'd the other one go halfway way down (he should have a seat close to...

Ok so my wedding is coming up. Destination wedding! One of my friends in my wedding happens to be a make up artist. I asked her to do our make up because it’ll save me the expense of having to fly...

I am at a complete loss here... We are 8 days out from our wedding and my future brother in law just informed us my fiance's mom is in the hospital with low BP and chest pains. For context, she has...

Hands down, one of the most frustrating parts of wedding planning is being the guest list police! From rogue relatives offering verbal invites, to your guests assuming they can bring a plus one (or...

...what do you do? I mean, I knew it was a possibility. He had early onset Alzheimer's and congenitial heart failure and was in the ER last week needing oxygen and we saw a significant decline when he...

FLOWERS! Are y’all using real or fake? Or a mixture of both? We have considered doing fake bouquets (so we can keep them) and real for decor. Or should we do all real or all fake?

I can’t believe I am even typing this but I could really use everyone’s advice and words of encouragement to get through this. I am 3 1/2 months out from my wedding and my father just passed. He was...

So I have invited around 200 people, only expecting like 165 to show up. I registered for 150 items, but those include cash funds. So, should I add some more little things here and there? I think I...

I would prefer a small wedding with the people who are important and close to me and my FH in attendance. With that in mind, our guest list is around 50 people: our immediate families, our close...

Hey everyone! I am getting married in September. My mom passed away suddenly 4 years ago. Every time I try to plan something to represent her at my wedding I just get extremely emotional. I don’t know...

It's been suggested to me to wear my engagement ring on my right ring finger during the ceremony so the wedding band can go on the left. Is this what ya'll are doing? Is that common? If so.. when do...

I have a "friend" who we have had a multitude of problems before this, but all of them have gotten worse since I've gotten engaged. She ditches me we will make plans and the day of an hour before she...