Discussions I've participated in

My fiancé has an algorithm for the the alcohol amounts for our wedding and swears we will have enough, but I’m still worried. Here’s what we have for 200 guests: 1 keg 6 cases of beer 1 12 bottle case...

This is long, but it’s important I provide details to get the full picture. The friend I am considering uninviting is someone who has been a part of my friend group since college. We even lived...

Hi everyone! So...COVID has foiled part of our wedding plans for 10/31/21 in NY. Our venue sold their building and they are essentially giving us 2 days to figure out if we want to go with their new...

Our wedding is in May of 2022 and my MOH is on top of Bachelorette planning. She has been looking forward to this for the entirety of my fiance and I's relationship. However, she is really optimistic...

Hi everyone! Like many of you, I was a 2020 bride and I postponed to June 2021. With things seeming to never end are their any brides that have already postponed their summer wedding to 2022? I am...

Is anyone else making the decision to not have a bridal shower? I honestly have no desire! My fiancé and I have been living together for 3 years and do not need anything! Also, we live in tiny NYC...

"Getting married May 14, 2021" I'm thinking of just cutting all the what ifs and stressing out and messaging my vendors and venue to see if they are available May 14, 2022. We were going to wait till...

Im such an excited soon to be bride I can’t help but look (just about once a week) at different dresses from the company I want to buy my wedding dress from. But I’m minimally 1 year out from my...

My fiance and I are 7 years apart but our birthdays are 2 days apart. I'm 31 and he's 24. It was weird for me because he's the same age as my younger brother but clearly I eventually got over it lol....

Hi again, everyone! I should have thought about all of these questions before I made my original post, but... what happens when a wedding dress you try on is too small? I’m only asking because I read...

Anyone nervous about restrictions still being in place? I talked to my event planner last week and I guess I wasn’t as aware of ALL of the restrictions that are being placed on weddings in my state. I...

Anyone have a Stella York dress? Was it pricey? How is the fit?

Did you have your bridesmaids pay for their own dresses or did you pay for them all? We will have 5-10 bridesmaids (depending on our venue space) but we’re leaning towards having them pay. After all-...

Unfortunately, today my fiancé and I started to have the conversation about rescheduling our May 2021 wedding 😭. I’m devastated. We are starting to have the conversation bc NY still only allows...

I know traditionally if you invite someone into your wedding party they pay for the cost associated; i.e. dresses/tux etc. Paying for everyone would put us way over budget to pay for the entire...

My FH has chosen to do Guinness and blue moon for beer. I don’t drink beer, are these good options? I was planning on doing a white muscato and a red Muscato for wine. Is one red and one white enough?...

We weren't going to do a bridal party it was just going to be my fiance, son and me (this was the plan even before covid) but apparently I'm crazy because this past week I changed my mind on what...

Hi Ladies I'm deep diving into planning mode for my wedding in my home state. I can't meet in person at all due to travel restrictions.I;m still in early stages with vendor reach outs. I was wondering...