Discussions I've participated in

What’s everyone’s feeling on a week day weeding? I’m looking at either Tuesday or Friday. It’d be around 200 people and a destination wedding for majority..I’m in Hawaiʻi and a lot of family friends...

Our day is set for middle of June..it’s far away but yet so close! I’m on the fence right now on postponing or having it. The wedding will be in Hawaiʻi with a lot of family coming from the mainland....

This is bothering me and I need some opinions. So I sent out the invitations last week and someone FB messaged me if 6 more guests could come. Then sent me a note in the RSVP return asking again!!!!!...

Who pays for bridesmaid hair & makeup? I already bought their dresses and will pay for their alterations. It is not a destination wedding so they don’t have to pay for flight, lodging, car, food...

Hi, I am having 2 receptions in 2 different states because of health restrictions for family. I will be having a ceremony with a reception in 1 state then will have a banquet in another state. All...

Who pays for the wedding night accommodations for newly weds?

How do you have the discussion with your bridal party of who pays for what? What do I pay for? What do they pay for? Read online that I pay for: - bouquets - hair & makeup- wedding day...

Do I send save the dates & invitations to the wedding party?

After looking through a few Pinterest pins, I’m starting to love when the bridesmaids wear different dress styles in different colors. I know it my day, but I want them to at least love and feel...

What’s the protocol for the rehearsal meal? I will be doing a lunch the day before and I’m picturing it to be super casual and chill..the calm before the storm haha. So I’d want it to be at a local...

Ok..I’m at a big choice right now. What are your thoughts of having the ceremony guestlist different from the reception guest list? I want my ceremony to be very intimate so I would invite just close...

What are your thoughts on reception attire? Ok..I’ve been with my man for 10+ years. All my family knows him and vice versa and we have the same crowd of friends..so it’s not really like a joining...

What’s your thoughts on the wedding dates? Like is Wednesday or Thursday weird?

I’m planning my guest list and am noticing all of my friends have at least 2-4 kids. So that’s about 20 heads!!! But I’m doing a destination wedding and all of my cousins have kids that I’m super...

So my dilemma is that one of my Fiance's sisters has a really poorly behaved 2 year old. He won't sit still, screams to all high heaven if he doesn't get his way, and she struggles to keep him from...