So my dilemma is that one of my Fiance's sisters has a really poorly behaved 2 year old. He won't sit still, screams to all high heaven if he doesn't get his way, and she struggles to keep him from destroying everything in his path. He literally will grab things off of my shelves at my home and throw them across the room before she can catch him. The other two kids in the family are a bit older and much easier to handle. SO... I'm having a REALLY expensive, REALLY fancy wedding & ceremony where there will be lots of beautiful things to grab and throw. I'm also hiring a REALLY expensive videographer for the event and DO NOT want him SCREAMING and ruining my wedding. The biggest dilema is that she has no money as she's a stay at home mom who her dad is supporting her. So how do I say NO KIDS without completely keeping her from coming? This is one of the most stressful parts about my wedding is trying to make sure she handles her kid! UGH
Should I just talk to her and let her know that if she brings him I need them to be REALLY courteous? I'm scared.