Discussions I've participated in

I have a Champagne dress with Ivory Lace Overlay. Currently our flower girl has an Ivory dress. I'm worried that it will make my dress look dingy or yellow because her's is sooo much more white. I...

Our wedding is this fall & my fiance has a longtime family friend who is recently out of an inpatient recovery center for addiction. From what we've heard, he's really going through with it this...

Our wedding is 9/18/21. I originally wanted to send our invites around the first week of July which would be well within the normal 8-12 weeks period. But, I'm now worried about mailing times (USPS...

For our dinner we are doing a buffet with 2 entrees and 3 sides. I'd love input on which chicken option to use. Currently we have: Sausages & Peppers which pair nicely with the Rigatoni &...

Hey everyone so I am in a bit of a dilemma right now between picking my bridesmaid order. I picked out my MOH & I’ve already asked everyone that I wanted to be a bridesmaid, and there were a lot...

We’ve been hoping to do an international honeymoon, but really hesitant to book anything in advance because of COVID. It’s in September, so that’s 8 months for things to get better, but it’s hard to...

My future SIL has a hostile relationship with my future MIL.. as in they can't be seated on the same side of our venue and both have had to be told not to cause drama the day of the wedding, and...

We’re getting married in September, which is peak hurricane season for the Atlantic, so I don’t want to do anything along that side of the coast. FH has mentioned an all inclusive in Hawaii (seems...

Crap you guys, it just occurred to me we never sent thank you notes out after my shower!! It was 2 months ago. I feel terrible. It’s not too late right? The wedding is in 2 weeks :/

It's a long story, but ultimately FH's sister & mother don't get along. As in she wasn't invited to her daughter's wedding). FH's grandparents were upset the mother wasn't invited and his grandpa...

When creating your seating arrangements, do you put family close to the bridal party's table, or the significant others of the bridal party? I feel like you HAVE to put the family closest, right? But...

What are your thoughts on an A and B list guest list? My fiance and I are having a hard time cutting people from the guest list but also want some wiggle room to add people if we get a significant...

I’m attending a wedding in October that recently had to switch venues due to current circumstances, because of this I feel like my outfit is no longer appropriate (it went from a garden venue at a...

Do people seriously not only invite themselves to weddings they haven’t been invited to, but also invited people as dates/plus 1’s without asking the bride and groom?! We’ve had BOTH happen to us....

Our wedding is a year out, so a delay in a response from a vendor isn't a crisis, but the woman who is our contact for our venue hasn't responded to my emails in two weeks. When should I worry/start...

When did you send out your Save the Dates? Our wedding is October 2021. Friends of ours are getting married three weeks before us and are doing their Save the Date as a combined holiday card/Save the...

Hi everyone! Newly engaged girl over here and even though my wedding isn't until 8/26/22, I've began to start to get a guest list together just to kind of see where mine and my FH budget lies as we...

It saves on a stamp, so I get it why people do it and it makes sense to me. But also, I've had people say they would NEVER do that. Is it a faux pas to pass things out at family events or at work as...

Originally (Pre-Covid) I had planned on sending our Save the Dates out in January for our 9/18/21 wedding. We have a lot of out of state travelers so we wanted to give ample notice. However, with...

I’ve been to Europe before, backpacking for a month and hit 12 countries. Fiancé has never left the country. We are ~dreaming~ of going to Europe for 2 weeks for our honeymoon. We want to spend a day...