Discussions I've participated in

By all means, I don't want to turn into a bridezilla so I haven't given really strict instructions to anyone. Anytime I make a decision I double check with my fiance, my bridal party, friends who are...

I’ve been debating wearing a second dress for my reception! If you are wearing a second dress show me! If not tell me why!

I'm hoping this post doesn't result in negativity though I know I run the risk of attacks here. The title may make me sound greedy, superficial and ungrateful but I promise I'm not. I'm incredibly...

This is an excerpt from our contract and just want a second opinion that the service charge DOES include tip. After reading so many times, it becomes blurred and confusing. "A service charge,...

Who writes the thank you card? Are you choosing based on who has the better handwriting? 50-50? Just the ladies because the guys could care less what it says? Let me know!

What does everyone do for tipping? I've googled and seen so many varied answers, and some of them seem just so over the top so just looking for a little sanity check. My package with the venue...

Ladies, I need your advice! First, backstory- I worked with a woman who was fired from my office about 6 months ago. Not only did we work together for 14 years but we were very close friends outside...

Hey ladies, So I super duper had my heart set on a photographer. She was just wonderful, did our engagement photos and my FH and I fell in love with her. But her wedding packages were just out of...

For those of you who have already purchased your dress. How did you know it was ‘the one’? How many did you try on before finding it?

My stepmom on a fixed income offered to pay for our venue and my MOH offered to pay for our photographer,. I really appreciate all of their help. I am paying for the wedding and my FH is paying for...

Ok y’all, how much are you paying for flowers? I really want lavender so I’m not choosing an expensive flower, but I want flowers on my arch/chuppah, obviously the bouquets and bouttenierres (sp?) for...

Hello everyone ! New here .. my fiancé and I are in the process of planning our June 2020 wedding .. we’re starting to think about invitations ( we know it’s early just getting ideas ) since we’re...

I've only toured one venue, and I'm looking at two more on Sunday. I'm beginning to feel a bit rushed!

I'm still debating but I'm thinking about skipping invitations. It would be another expense. Has anyone else done this? Are wedding invitations expensive? I don't even know where to look.

Did anyone do a first look? Are you glad you did, or do you regret it? There’s a portion of our venue we’ll only be able to take pictures in if we do a first look before the ceremony. My dress has a...

Okay ladies! How much are you budgeting and how much are you expecting to ACTUALLY spend on your entire wedding? I always hear that you go over what you expect to spend. What are the hidden expenses...