Discussions I've participated in

Hello ladies, how long does a ceremony have to last , I’m having a Catholic ceremony .I want it for 30 -40 minutes max . That includes possession of the bridal party.Is that to short.

What will your next life event be after your wedding is over? Are you planning to go back to school? Start a family? Buy a house? Take a vacation? Start a new career?

Has anyone been able to have a priest/pastor/ordained minister officiate their wedding outside of a church? We aren’t avid church goers(both baptized) and wouldn’t want to have to go through pre...

I booked my wedding venue 2 years out. It’s a full weekend of activities, a 3 hour drive away, and we are spending almost a million dollars. My best friend recently decided to book her wedding the...

My Fiancé’s parents are not together. His dad has remarried and has a toddler, his mom has a boyfriend that she’s been with shortly after she and my FH’s dad split. His mom has not met his dads wife,...

Hello everyone 👋🏾 My wedding went from a “no kid” wedding to “exception to the rule” wedding. I honestly felt I had no other option since my bridesmaids (only 2) have kids and unfortunately no one is...

What have been your favorites as a guest and what did you absolutely hate?

OK, real talk, does anyone else feel like $#!@ is getting totally outta hand with your wedding?? 😆 I just purchased my fourth… yes I said FOURTH… wedding dress. I started out the most...

Hello all! Just wanted to see if anyone else was going old school and doing the whole "something old, something new, something borrowed, and something blue"? If you are - how are you incorporating...

I invited my half-brother, his wife, and their two kids to my wedding. Their son is my ringbearer. They are staying at a nearby Airbnb for the event, and recently relayed to my mom (not to me) that my...

My fiancé and I are newly engaged! I am so excited to start planning my big day. I am a big people pleaser and that will definitely be a downfall to me planning my own wedding.😫 With that being said,...

After reading so many comments about what a travesty having a gap in-between your ceremony and cocktail hour is, I was terrified that no one was going to want to come to our wedding. Why? Because,...

My fiance and I are getting married next April in a backyard wedding on a relative's property. Due to financial issues related to the pandemic and some previous student loan debt, we can't have the...

Me and my fiancé have been together for 8 years (will be 9 in November) I met him when I was 17 and he was 19. We have 3 beautiful daughters together!! He asked me to marry him August 19th 2021 and...

Is anyone choosing nontraditional music for their ceremony (prelude, processional, recessional, etc.) or for their wedding videos? (Ex: rock, punk, metal, movie/tv show theme songs)

Hi there! Im trying to create part of the timeline for our elopement/micro ceremony. We will be having the ceremony on a boat, a two hour private charter, followed by dinner nearby. I have booked the...

Have you made any decisions for your wedding that people think is “weird”? I’ve gotten a lot of “side-eye” for my choice of man of honor (instead of maid of honor). Not so much that I’ve chosen a man...

Hi there! My fiancee and I are fully financing our wedding ourselves with little help from family on both sides. We are very excited to get married and on the same page financially etc. Just wanted to...