Discussions I've participated in

My fiancé and I decided to cancel our big wedding in April and do a small backyard wedding. We’ve been working on cancelling with all of the vendors that couldn’t be at our smaller wedding. One of...

My backyard wedding was Saturday and it was perfect! We decided to have the wedding 3 weeks before. Literally had 3 weeks to pull off an entire wedding, and even though it was only 30 people it wasn’t...

We are finally married!! Been engaged since 2018 and postponed our big wedding a few times, we decided 3 weeks ago that we were tired of waiting. Cancelled out big wedding and had an intimate wedding...

My fiancé and I are getting legally married this month and will be having a big celebration April 2021. We are just doing a backyard ceremony and some food/drinks afterwards. Just our parents and...

Hi guys! we pushed our big wedding out from September 2020 to April 2021 but we need to be legally married now for insurance so we are doing a minimony on 10/24 with just our parents and wedding party...

I had posted last month about some issues with a bridesmaid. We’ve been friends for a while and things are extremely one sided. I’ve been there for her through everything, every event. So long story...

Any one else get rid of their wedding party because of lack of support? We had to postpone to next year but had a small ceremony this year with just our parents. So no bridal shower, no bach/ler trip...

I’ve been friends with her for 12 years and thought we were really close. I’ve been to every one of her family events, family vacations, birthdays, all the big moments. I’ve been introduced to all of...

Hi guys! My FH's bachelor party is coming up next month. His groomsman got a cabin in the mountains where they will probably just be hanging around and drinking all weekend. I am definitely the brains...

Where are my brides that are getting married in October that are still in the red zone?! We are getting married in Lehigh county (red zone) and are getting a little anxious about what’s going to...

Our venue is being really great and let us put a date on soft hold for next year. Our date is 9/5/20 and our soft hold backup date is 4/24/21. I just confirmed that we have the date help with the...

I am a bridesmaid in a wedding at the end of July. Everything is so up in the air with COVID-19, but her maid of honor has shown no interest and hasn’t reached out to anyone to plan bridal shower,...

I have a bridal shower scheduled for May 31st. So far our county is in complete lockdown. I guess my question is how long do we wait to make a decision about this? How late can we possibly wait to...

Hi guys, my mom is planning my bridal shower and we do have kind of a tricky situation. She lives in Florida and I live in Pennsylvania. She wants to have the shower near me in PA so she is having me...

My fiancé and I are writing our own vows, but there is this poem that I absolutely love and brings me to tears written by my favorite poet. It is a long poem so I want to take some parts of it and add...

Hi guys! I need some opinions on including my brothers in the bridal party. My fiancé has 5 groomsmen and I will only have 3 bridesmaids. We never really talked about including my 2 brothers because...

Hi guys! So I know the typical answers of of selfish I am being and how I’m not allowed to expect anything of my bridesmaids will come up but hear me out. I’m just not sure if I can get over all of...