Hi guys, my mom is planning my bridal shower and we do have kind of a tricky situation. She lives in Florida and I live in Pennsylvania. She wants to have the shower near me in PA so she is having me look at some venues in the area while she is on video chat and has been in touch with the planners, I am not doing any of the actual planning other than okaying some of her ideas that she bounced off of me. Now I really don't mind doing this as she really just wants to find the best place for me and make sure I love it.
Now the issue is that we definitely are on a budget. She asked me if there is anything that I would like to have included and I said all I wanted was a mimosa bar. I do not care about anything else, that was all i requested (since she asked). She is now saying she doesnt want to have alcohol there, doesnt want to pay for it and that I (the bride) will be responsible for paying for the alcohol bill. She says she does not feel comfortable asking anyone else for financial help, so if i want mimosas i have to pay for them. I understand that we are on a budget, and I also understand that I am not even supposed to be involved in the planning. But why ask me what I want to have then tell me I need to pay for it? What do you guys think I should do? do you think this is appropriate?
