Got married to my best friend on 5/16/20. We love fishing, working out, food, travelling, cats, and hanging out with close friends & family.

Happily married 🎉

May 16, 2020

567days 15hrs


Possible separation
Jai in Married Life, on June 19, 2021 at 11:03 AM

So after last night, we both agreed that it may be best for us to separate because it doesn't seem like 😕we can make this work. Last night I hit my breaking point and I wasn't even upset that we both...

Mai, Jun 21, 2021 19 730
Jai in Married Life, on June 1, 2021 at 9:30 PM

Today my mom got spinal fusion surgery and we went to visit her in the hospital. As we are visiting her my husbands on his phone reading a book. I ask to speak to him outside her room because I find...

Reasie, Jun 4, 2021 30 638
Husband with alcohol problem
Jai in Married Life, on May 2, 2021 at 7:07 PM

I've made several posts about this topic and I feel like on here I can vent, get sound feedback, and not be judged. Last night I hit my breaking point. My husband went out to a bar with his friend; I...

Jai, May 3, 2021 44 716
Need to vent
Jai in Married Life, on March 6, 2021 at 12:14 AM

I'm upset as I'm writing this, but need to vent since this WW community has been supportive to me in the past. My husband went out tonight to a bar with his best friend who is single; that's fine...

Jai, Mar 7, 2021 48 682
Jai in Community Conversations, on January 13, 2021 at 5:43 PM

I wanted to know if anyone has gotten matching tattoos with their partner or a tattoo signifying their marriage? I understand some believe it to be superstitious, but I've been tossing the idea...

Jai, Jan 15, 2021 29 252
Politics are hurting my marriage
Jai in Married Life, on November 11, 2020 at 6:29 AM

Unfortunately, the only topic my husband and I never discussed before marriage was politics. When we got together in 2017, Trump was already in office. This time around I voted for Biden and he voted...

Shell'a, Nov 18, 2020 100 1,755
To go or Not
Jai in Community Conversations, on November 9, 2020 at 6:23 AM

My husbands best friend (they've been friends for about 20 years now, since they were 8) is getting married to his FW on 12/12/2020 in a quick elopement outdoor garden ceremony and invited us, both...

Jai, Nov 11, 2020 32 332
In-law Complications
Jai in Family and Relationships, on September 7, 2020 at 9:33 PM

So, my husband and I have a strained relationship with his parents. They arent the easiest people to get along with. They are opinionated, can be rude, and have made it clear they don't like me. Their...

Yasmine, Sep 8, 2020 32 327
Jai in Married Life, on June 19, 2020 at 2:41 PM

So today my husband and I got into a heated argument. Which really doesnt happen too often. It was over his friend. We recently married 5/16/20. His friend 'B' was invited to the wedding, and even...

Jai, Jul 7, 2020 24 540
Got our wedding photos back!
Jai in Married Life, on May 22, 2020 at 9:02 PM

We recently got married 5/16/20 & our photographer sent some photos back. I wanted to share a few with all of you! This day was so much fun and my best advice would be to tell you all to focus on...

Jai, May 27, 2020 27 403 2
Officially married!
Jai in Community Conversations, on May 17, 2020 at 6:53 AM

Have a few pics from yesterdays small ceremony! Will he posting more pics later when we receive them from the photographer! Weather was perfect! Only people in attendance were: my parents, my...

Jai, May 18, 2020 33 392
Is there a difference?
Jai in Married Life, on May 14, 2020 at 6:40 PM

Hey ladies! Quick question. I'm getting married Saturday and want to know, is there a difference between being engaged to being married? And what did you notice that changed? I'm excited, but want to...

Jai, May 18, 2020 18 397 1
Lack of family support
Jai in Family and Relationships, on May 8, 2020 at 8:58 PM

So my FH and I were supposed to get married tomorrow. Because of the pandemic we decided to push it to next saturday 5/16 & have a small ceremony with 10 people and reception; the ceremony will be...

Jai, May 9, 2020 25 389
Boudoir shoot
Jai in Community Conversations, on April 27, 2020 at 8:04 PM

Hey ladies! What are some reputable sites for lingerie? Am doing a boudoir shoot for FH and am having a difficult time finding one. Usually I shop in store.. Any websites would be appreciated!

Belle, Apr 28, 2020 14 200
Feeling hurt and angry
Jai in Community Conversations, on April 24, 2020 at 7:14 PM

I dont really know how to react. My FH parents wont be coming to our mini wedding on May16th due to them feeling uncomfortable because of the virus. My parents will be there, his cousin and her gf,...

Jai, Apr 25, 2020 26 527
Having a hard time
Jai in New Jersey Planning, on April 20, 2020 at 5:58 PM

Unfortunately in NJ, there is no end to this lockdown. My FH and I know an officiant who can marry us in her backyard (her backyard is a huge garden and she runs a wedding business and it looks really...

Jai, Apr 20, 2020 4 152
Jai in Wedding Ceremony, on April 18, 2020 at 7:58 PM

Hey everyone! Quick question! Which website did you use to have a friend officiate your wedding? Our neighbor will do it, but we need a real website!

Jai, Apr 19, 2020 7 111
Feeling Down
Jai in Community Conversations, on April 10, 2020 at 1:47 PM

I really need to vent and I haven't vented to anyone about this. Last night my FH said some hurtful things to me due to him being under stress. A little backstory: our wedding date is May 9th and we...

Jai, Apr 12, 2020 86 2,848 1
Jai in Community Conversations, on April 1, 2020 at 5:51 PM

Hey everyone. I just need some support from WW! Just got a phone call that our honeymoon is being refunded (May 10th to 17th) due to COVID19. That makes me feel so crappy. We live in NJ and cant even...

Jai, Apr 8, 2020 6 151
Jai in Do It Yourself, on March 29, 2020 at 6:54 PM

Hey everyone! I need some insight! My FH and I are cancelling our venue for May 9th since the president is keeping social distancing guidelines in effect til April 30th. But will still be getting...

Jai, Mar 29, 2020 2 152
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