Possible separation

So after last night, we both agreed that it may be best for us to separate because it doesn't seem like 😕we can make this work. Last night I hit my breaking point and I wasn't even upset that we both agreed that staying together isn't the best choice.

So Thursday I come home from work and the apartment above us, their hot water heater broke and leaked into our carpet, our walls, and completely saturated the carpet. They soaked up a lot of water and will be fixing it all starting Monday. We were put in a hotel Thursday and Friday. Both of us are stressed, and we had our neighbor watch our two cats for us because it wasn't a safe environment for them either.
Fast forward to yesterday, I work a double 8a to 12a. My husband checked in our hotel for us and told me he would be leaving the bar around 1030p last night to meet me at 11p to be there for the hotel. (Mind you I'm upset as well because in 3 hours he has has 8 beers and is once again driving & when we meet up later I can smell the beer on him) . Last night the bar had a fundraiser going on for one of the bouncers who was recently deceased due to a motorcycle accident. Well, I'm relieved early from work and leave at 1130p. I call my husband and he's leaving the bar now. No communication, didn't even tell me "hey I'll be late". Nothing. So I became frustrated and told him that if he's supposed to meet me at the hotel he should have been on time since I need to shower and sleep because I'm working today 8-4. I get to the hotel before him and ended up having the person at the desk let me up In our room, since he has our two hotel keys. I get myself ready for bed and he comes in angry at me because I told him how I felt and how in social situations I feel like I'm put on the back burner and am not a priority. I'm fed up at this point. I tell him that he doesn't communicate well at all, and we are too different. When I'm stressed I need comfort and he needs space. As I worked my double yesterday he didn't text me about how I'm doing or how I'm feeling, considering that I'm stressed due to our apartment, my mom getting spinal fusion surgery and yesterday being my last week of school until the middle of July. I'm not getting what I need in Mt marriage and I'm at the point where I'm starting to accept my marriage won't get any better . Thanks for giving me a safe place to vent WW.