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July 11, 2020

81days 13hrs


Commitment ceremony
Ali in Do It Yourself, on June 19, 2020 at 9:22 AM

So. We arent getting married (reasons but thats for another day), so we are having a commitment ceremony instead of a legal wedding. We are struggling with the wording and how to open the ceremony. A...

Courtney, Jun 19, 2020 5 105
So close yet so far
Ali in Community Conversations, on June 7, 2020 at 11:30 AM

34 days. Anyone else sometimes feel like maybe we shouldn't get married? Just so stressful and oy. I mean i love him and I want to marry him, thats not the issue. In fact I don't think there is one....

Kristina, Jun 9, 2020 13 157
i cant figure out which dress!
Ali in Wedding Attire, on June 1, 2020 at 10:42 PM

I'm going for my hair and makeup trial on Thursday and I the dress will determine the hair style! Helppp!!! He likes them both, the kids are divided (one likes the shorter one, one likes the longer...

Laura, Jun 2, 2020 16 208
Ali in Community Conversations, on May 17, 2020 at 11:08 AM

I had a dream that I was walking and I smacked my ring on something (I have no idea where I was or what I smacked my ring on I think it was a chair someone was sitting in and he was talking to me. Not...

Grace, May 18, 2020 8 106
Well it happened...
Ali in Community Conversations, on April 21, 2020 at 9:08 PM

We ended up postponing from June 6 to July 11. But its alright! More of our guests are probably going to be able to make it out here for the ceremony! We will be honeymooning a full week and a half...

Ali, Apr 24, 2020 3 216
Over it
Ali in Planning, on April 3, 2020 at 9:04 PM

Let me start by saying I absolutely love fh, and am looking forward to our day. That said. I'm. over. It. I just want our day to be here and get it done with. With just about 2 months left, I'm over...

Ali, Apr 4, 2020 6 227
He changed things
Ali in Wedding Attire, on February 29, 2020 at 10:42 PM

Gah!!!!! He changed his vision up and ordered things and now my dress wont fit the image!!!!!!!!! My dress is a red tea length vintage with black petticoat and heels. His outfit (omg!) He (ugh!!)...a...

Ali, Mar 1, 2020 9 310
What happened?
Ali in Married Life, on October 19, 2019 at 11:44 PM

Married people, what went wrong on your day? Was it a bug deal, or no? I'm just curious! Thanks!!

Ali, Oct 26, 2019 33 440
Ali in Wedding Attire, on October 9, 2019 at 4:56 PM

I could just cry. Over shoes! What is wrong with me!! It took forever for me to find THE shoes. I finally have it in the budget to get them this month and they're gine! Sold out!!! Everywhere else...

Tina, Oct 9, 2019 9 207
Attendants clothes and gifts
Ali in Etiquette and Advice, on August 14, 2019 at 1:32 AM

I only have 1 girl, hes got my moh's husband and fh brother (not thrilled about that but moh o don't get along so its whatever) idk who's supposed to pay for their clothes and accessories and all that...

Ali, Aug 15, 2019 3 52
Card box/bin/whatever
Ali in Do It Yourself, on August 14, 2019 at 1:41 AM

So, we want to have a place where guests can put a card or money where other guests won't take off with it. (We have to invite a couple people we dont trust. Okay more like I dont trust them. 1 is in...

Ali, Aug 15, 2019 16 178
Happiest day stained with devistarion
Ali in Family and Relationships, on August 1, 2019 at 7:16 PM

So. A week ago my dress came in! We ALL love it!!!! (The kids and fh too because he was as excited as I was about it!!!) I tried it on, took a picture, and got out of it because I'm a klutz and will...

Casey, Aug 4, 2019 15 382
Ali in Do It Yourself, on July 15, 2019 at 8:38 PM

Omg!!! I am super happy with this!!! I put two of these together today!! Super excited about them!! 10 months left to go!! Black rose with greenery and baby's breath inside a metal and glass lantern...

Ali, Jul 26, 2019 16 207 1
Fun songs to walk down the aisle to
Ali in Planning, on June 21, 2019 at 11:01 PM

We're looking for some songs that aren't sappy or won't make us cry for me to make my entrance to. We like rock, pop, and alternative mostly, but were open to everything. Something upbeat though....

Ali, Jun 24, 2019 9 90
Ali in Community Conversations, on June 21, 2019 at 11:18 AM

I had my first wedding planning nightmare last night. Backstory: my mom hasn't been able to go dress shopping for my sister or me the first time, and I'm giving her the experience this weekend. I'm...

Ali, Jun 24, 2019 4 45
Ali in Fitness and Health, on June 17, 2019 at 1:57 AM

What are all y'all brides doing to get/stay in shape for your big day? I have mobility issues that make it hard to walk, but I'm doing leg day, stretch day, core day, stretch day, arm day, stretch...

Jessie, Jun 18, 2019 8 80
Ali in Hair and Makeup, on June 9, 2019 at 12:17 AM

I'm not one who wears makeup (except for Halloween makeup!!!) But when I do, I prefer a more natural look, not like I got my face spackled on. How do you pick a makeup artist without spending a ton of...

MrsD, Jun 10, 2019 8 114
The dress
Ali in Wedding Attire, on June 7, 2019 at 11:08 PM

Okay so, I'm a larger girl. I have a 52 inch waist. I'm not looking for a white dress or any variant of white. I am having one heck of a time finding a place that might have something I can try on! If...

Ali, Jun 9, 2019 14 161
Ali in Planning, on May 28, 2019 at 2:38 PM

How long before the day should the RSVPs be due??? We are doing all the food ourselves, so we need to plan for that, but we don't want to make people RSVP too soon and have them forget! I'm frazzled!!...

Angerra, May 29, 2019 5 79
a couple questions
Ali in Planning, on May 27, 2019 at 4:55 PM

So, I know the groom isn't supposed to see the dress or bride before the wedding/first look, but can the bride see the room/his clothes before then??? Is there a tradition that says no? We know about...

Ali, May 27, 2019 6 176