Discussions by Ali

So. We arent getting married (reasons but thats for another day), so we are having a commitment ceremony instead of a legal wedding. We are struggling with the wording and how to open the ceremony. A...

34 days. Anyone else sometimes feel like maybe we shouldn't get married? Just so stressful and oy. I mean i love him and I want to marry him, thats not the issue. In fact I don't think there is one....

I had a dream that I was walking and I smacked my ring on something (I have no idea where I was or what I smacked my ring on I think it was a chair someone was sitting in and he was talking to me. Not...

We ended up postponing from June 6 to July 11. But its alright! More of our guests are probably going to be able to make it out here for the ceremony! We will be honeymooning a full week and a half...

Let me start by saying I absolutely love fh, and am looking forward to our day. That said. I'm. over. It. I just want our day to be here and get it done with. With just about 2 months left, I'm over...

Gah!!!!! He changed his vision up and ordered things and now my dress wont fit the image!!!!!!!!! My dress is a red tea length vintage with black petticoat and heels. His outfit (omg!) He (ugh!!)...a...

Married people, what went wrong on your day? Was it a bug deal, or no? I'm just curious! Thanks!!

I could just cry. Over shoes! What is wrong with me!! It took forever for me to find THE shoes. I finally have it in the budget to get them this month and they're gine! Sold out!!! Everywhere else...

I only have 1 girl, hes got my moh's husband and fh brother (not thrilled about that but moh o don't get along so its whatever) idk who's supposed to pay for their clothes and accessories and all that...

So, we want to have a place where guests can put a card or money where other guests won't take off with it. (We have to invite a couple people we dont trust. Okay more like I dont trust them. 1 is in...

So. A week ago my dress came in! We ALL love it!!!! (The kids and fh too because he was as excited as I was about it!!!) I tried it on, took a picture, and got out of it because I'm a klutz and will...

We're looking for some songs that aren't sappy or won't make us cry for me to make my entrance to. We like rock, pop, and alternative mostly, but were open to everything. Something upbeat though....

I had my first wedding planning nightmare last night. Backstory: my mom hasn't been able to go dress shopping for my sister or me the first time, and I'm giving her the experience this weekend. I'm...

What are all y'all brides doing to get/stay in shape for your big day? I have mobility issues that make it hard to walk, but I'm doing leg day, stretch day, core day, stretch day, arm day, stretch...

I'm not one who wears makeup (except for Halloween makeup!!!) But when I do, I prefer a more natural look, not like I got my face spackled on. How do you pick a makeup artist without spending a ton of...

Okay so, I'm a larger girl. I have a 52 inch waist. I'm not looking for a white dress or any variant of white. I am having one heck of a time finding a place that might have something I can try on! If...

How long before the day should the RSVPs be due??? We are doing all the food ourselves, so we need to plan for that, but we don't want to make people RSVP too soon and have them forget! I'm frazzled!!...

So, I know the groom isn't supposed to see the dress or bride before the wedding/first look, but can the bride see the room/his clothes before then??? Is there a tradition that says no? We know about...