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Devoted July 2020

So close yet so far

Ali, on June 7, 2020 at 11:30 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 13
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34 days. Anyone else sometimes feel like maybe we shouldn't get married? Just so stressful and oy. I mean i love him and I want to marry him, thats not the issue. In fact I don't think there is one. Just doubting myself. Is this normal?

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Latest activity by Kristina, on June 9, 2020 at 10:48 AM
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    Dedicated June 2020
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    I always feel like I rather just elope vs a wedding. I still want to get married, I just could have went without the stressed of planning a wedding
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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    Do you mean having a wedding vs eloping or doubting really getting married? Cold feet?

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    Ali ·
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    Cold feet I think. How do I get oastbit
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    Devoted July 2020
    Ali ·
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    Wow...past it...sheesh lol
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    Devoted July 2020
    Ali ·
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    Pretty sure its a case of cold feet. All this stress is stressful lll
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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    I cannot tell you how to get over it. No one can. I think nerves are normal but you would have to focus on why you have cold feet. Is it something about your FH? Is it the wedding itself? I mean you would have to dig deep as to what is causing it. Maybe someone else has better advice.

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  • Elizabeth
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    I relate to this, but for me it's just because we put SO MUCH TIME into planning the wedding that it stresses me out. It has nothing to do with marriage itself, but rather just the event becoming stressful. If it's something more serious, maybe talk about it with your partner and see what's going on?

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    Devoted July 2020
    Ali ·
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    Good odea thanks!
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  • Ashshaw2022
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    Its normal I think, I would focus on why you love him and why you want to marry him

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    I know when I was wedding planning I had moments of stress where I just felt like eloping aha
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  • Kristina
    Dedicated July 2020
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    I’m 38 days from my wedding and I feel the same. I love my FH so much and I am still planning on marrying him. Maybe it’s just the stress of everything and Covid?
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    I think its stress and cold feet. But I'm feeling a bit better now. Its mostly late at night when I'm trying to go to sleep and its quiet.
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  • Kristina
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    Yep, I’ve been up all night because of it so I totally get it. We will get through it 🤗
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