Carlton Oaks Golf Course is a beautiful resort and wedding venue in Santee, California. This private estate offers an 18-hole golf course, private dining, a fine lodge, and fun-filled activities for couples and families. Weddings at Carlton Oaks Golf Course are a once in a lifetime experience. Your wedding will be tailored to your unique visions and style, with packages services provided at an affordable price. Whether you’re planning an intimate elopement or a grand celebration with family and friends, Carlton Oaks Golf Course will make your special day one to remember.
Facilities and Capacity
Carlton Oaks Golf Course offers stunning wedding venue space for occasions of every style. The grounds are surrounded by the San Diego mountains, with the ridge outline most beautiful during sunset hour. You can see the mountains at all angles of the golf course, providing a sense of seclusion and closeness to nature. The resort offers a lush garden space for ceremonies and small receptions. The manicured greenery and intimate seating offer a perfect place for small dinners and cocktail hour. The Crest Room, Carlton Oak’s primary dining room, overlooks the golf course lakes. The Crest Room is ideal for larger wedding receptions. After sunset, the mountain skyline and shimmering lakes enhance the romantic ambiance. There is not a more romantic place to host a wedding in San Diego than Carlton Oaks Golf Course.
The staff at Carlton Oaks Golf Course ensures your wedding event is truly a dream come true. They will help plan and prepare your wedding down to the last detail. Carlton Oaks Golf Course offers in-house catering and tastings featuring all-American comfort food. To assist couples with their wedding planning, Carlton Oaks hosts two bridal open house showcases each year. The event is free to the public and features some of the venue’s top preferred vendors.
Carlton Oaks Golf Course offers a luxury lodge with 58 recently renovated rooms and suites. Lodge guests have access to an 18-hole championship golf course, outdoor pool and hot tub, spa, business office, and free Wi-Fi throughout the resort.
Recommended by 99% of couples
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Icelee · Married on 03/30/2019
There really are no words to describe just how wonderful our wedding was at Carlton Oaks. But! For the sake of reviewing, I can spare a few main points highlighting how awesome this place is. :)Sent on 05/10/2019
My now-husband and I booked in March 2018, exactly 1 year before out March 30, 2019 wedding. We went in for a tour, and as soon as I saw the beautiful garden area where the ceremonies are typically held, I was sold immediately. Pictures really don't do the place justice, it was a perfect fit for our 150 guest garden wedding. Our reception area, the Crest Room, was great, too. It's an awesome blank canvas and can accommodate practically any vision you may have for your wedding theme.
Another wonderful thing about Carlton Oaks is that it's kind of a one-stop-shop type of place. I thought I would have to search extensively for a bunch of separate vendors, but this place has so much to offer, from ceremony/reception site, catering, day-of services, etc. On top of that, everyone (the staff, catering managers, coordinators, etc) was so kind and professional to work with, and the quality of the service we received was outstanding. From the day we booked, to our yummy tasting consultations, to the day of our wedding, everything far exceeded our expectations.
Finally, I can't conclude this without mentioning that Shannon (our main point of contact for our wedding and our day-of coordinator) is THE BEST! She was literally with us from the very start, and I honestly credit her for making our wedding as perfect as it was. She is a dream to work with, extremely attentive, accommodating, and will jump through hoops to make your wedding visions a reality. You can really see and feel how passionate she is about what she does, and that's exactly the type of person you want backing you up on your big day!
Lauren · Married on 11/04/2017
I am so happy that we chose Carlton Oaks as our wedding venue. The ceremony site is beautiful and the Crest room was exactly what we were looking for for our reception. It's so convenient because everything is in one place, ceremony, reception, bridal suite and hotel rooms. We looked at so many other vendors and Carlton Oaks was the best value for what you get. I was a little worried when Yvette left about 5 months before our wedding, but Zandra took over as catering manager and she is amazing. She is very sweet and so easy to work. She made sure to answer all of our questions and always did her best to accommodate all of our requests. Even the little things, like having water and snacks waiting for us on the golf cart after our ceremony, really made the difference. Everyone also complimented the food we had for dinner, which was the tri tip and stuffed chicken with alfredo sauce. I would definitely recommend this venue to anyone planning a wedding or event.Sent on 11/21/2017
Sara · Married on 04/14/2017
Yvette at Carlton oaks and the preferred vendors she works with made my wedding day unforgettable. Not to mention, we pulled it all off within 2 months! We had 100guests and every single person had a blast! The food was actually very good, not like most wedding food that is forgettable! We had the Polynesian buffet and it was a hit! My husband and I felt from the beginning that this was the place for us, and we were so right. The ceremony was beautiful, the pictures had an amazing backdrop and the reception, a blast! I can't recommend them more to those who want a beautiful wedding and reception site with a coordinator,Yvette, and her vendors that not only stayed within our budget but made our dreams come true!Sent on 05/15/2017
What a great venue to work with. We highly recommend.
The Carlton Oaks Golf Course is surrounded by the beautiful San Diego mountains. It is a must see location that provides a beautiful backdrop for your wedding ceremony. All brides should check out this amazing San Diego venue.
Great venue, we look forward to working with them again!