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Should bridemaids all have same jewerly and shoes?
I didnt mind a few girls wanting to pick out their own shoes and wanting no one else to have them, then having their hair different. But their own jewlery, i think that they would each look totally different. I am unsure, but I rather buy everyone same jewelry.

Married: 08/14/2010
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Posted On: Jul 4, 2010 at 4:09 PM | Vendors are allowed | Add to My Watchlist | Flag As Inappropriate

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Married: 09/12/2010
Jul 04, 2010 at 5:33 PM • Flag As Inappropriate
If you feel like all your girls should have the same then they should. You're wedding is your day and you should have it the way you want it to be perfect. If your bridesmaids really care about you and helping you make your day wonderful then the won't mind helping you make it the day of your dreams.

Married: 01/08/2011
Reviews: 9
Jul 04, 2010 at 7:21 PM • Flag As Inappropriate
My girls are wearing their own jewelry and shoes, but if you feel the should all wear the same, that's fine. I feel, though, that since you want them to wear the same jewelry, you should use that as your bridesmaid's gift. At least that's how I see it.

2d Bride
Married: 10/06/2009
Reviews: 12
Jul 05, 2010 at 12:30 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
People vary in how much they want the bridesmaids to match. Some have them have exactly the same dress, shoes, and jewelry. Others allow a range of colors and styles in the dress, and have them wear their own jewelry and shoes. You can do what you want. The only rule is that if you give them the jewelry to wear and require them to wear it, you cannot count that as their bridesmaids' gift.

Married: 02/05/2011
Jul 05, 2010 at 4:21 PM • Flag As Inappropriate
My bridesmaids are wearing the same jewelry but their own shoes since their dresses will be long. All of my girls dont wear high heels so i just told them to wear silver shoes and thats it. They will still be in uniform but then different.

Married: 08/22/2010
Reviews: 9
Jul 07, 2010 at 11:00 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
My girls are wearing completely different jewelry than each other. I'm having necklaces made for each of them from etsy. As for the shoes, I don't care what they style or heel size is but as long as it's the same color or roughly the same.

Married: 2+ years ago
Reviews: 5
Jul 08, 2010 at 4:41 AM • Flag As Inappropriate
My girls are wearing whatever they want for the shoes..I am getting them jewelry for their gift which does match.

Married: 08/21/2010
Jul 08, 2010 at 6:40 PM • Flag As Inappropriate
My girls dresses are floor length, so I told them to get silver shoes, whatever style they want. I have purchased their jewelry (matching) as part of their gift.

Married: 12/05/2010
Reviews: 1
Jul 09, 2010 at 5:47 PM • Flag As Inappropriate
I actually bought the jewelry for my bridesmaids as part of their gift. My girls are wearing tea-length dresses, but I told them any silver shoes are fine. Most of my girls are short and wouldn't wear anything other than flats or sandals. Its totally your call.

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