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My discussion below seemed to be taken out of context. I would love to be able to invite everyone to my wedding - but that's not possible due to the cost & the size of our venue. We are trying to...
There are varying degrees of this. What was your experience? Does ‘sharing’ expenses to you mean splitting equally, splitting based on your income or ‘I pay this fully you pay that fully’ ? We both...
My husband entire family did not come to our wedding. Including his parents and twin brother. They never gave a legit reason as to why. It hurt so bad and I felt helpless in consoling him on our big...
Hey! I am new here and I need some advice. One of my closest friends for 6 years ditched me and went MIA. I made her my MOH for my wedding this December and now I am confused. To give a quick back...
So I made my bridal shower invites with my mom online… The original plan was that my FMIL would make them for me, but ever since her sciatic nerve started acting up .. she told me that she wouldn’t be...
I got engaged about a year ago to my partner of five years. We plan to marry in May of 2022. For a little background I have been married once before for a total of 16 years (I am in my 40’s now). My...
My mom really wants my younger sister in my wedding party but i don't, we have a very strained relationship sense she constantly treats me poorly and she complains if she has to help anyone with...
I am out of college for summer and have been trying to find a hobby. I decided that wedding planning would be my hobby during this time. Well, it has begun backfiring. I find all of these wonderful...
We used to be pretty close friends. Now we aren't so close and some things have come to light that make me want to distance myself from them a bit. We have only sent out Save The Dates so far. How do...
Okay you should probably sit down for this one. Backstory- My FH has a "sister" who lives with his mom and godmother. When he was little his dad was removed from the picture and his mom moved in with...
I’m having a very difficult time deciding who to keep in my wedding party. I asked 8 of my girlfriends and left 2 very important ones out. I can’t have 10 people and I think I’ve jumped the gun on who...
I wrote another post but was short on time so wrote a very confusing post so clearing it up here. To make things easy: Bride - KC Friend - Lexy So my best friend of 11 years (since beginning of high...
Hey ladies and gents, this is kind of a rough topic. So, me and my fiancé got engaged back in February and have been working our butts off to prepare for our January 7th, 2022 wedding. Well, my family...
So here’s alittle background: My fiancé & I were dating for 4.5 years when he proposed to me. We don’t argue a lot, but I will say that a month before he proposed I told him he should move back...
Question. My new mother in law has switched from coming to our wedding to not again again and again. I’m at the point I don’t want her there because I know she will ruin our day. Any advice?
Hi everyone, my fiancé and I are planning a new wedding after a very difficult year. Our April 2020 wedding was cancelled due to covid, shortly after this he became very sick and was very sick for...
Happy Monday everyone. So I’m having trouble with friends/bridesmaids. I haven’t asked anyone yet but the ones I was going to ask are kinda iffy. I don’t have many friends to start and I recently had...
I am upset my best friend/ basically family won't be attending my wedding.. I am right to feel upset? Backstory: My fiance asked me to marry him probably 5 times randomly and very casually over the...
So I started to pick out my bridal party and my 2 cousins lets call them K,A always assumed they would be apart of the bridal party, they were making demands that I have to invite this person or they...
I had previously posted about my reasons for wanting to relieve my bridesmaids of their duties and I officially did it. There is no resentment on my part and if anything I feel relieved. Long story...