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Blending familys can be a true joy, but there are tricky elements too. From merging households, to deciding where to spend the holidays, this is the place to give and get support on all things family.

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My parents/future in-laws are driving me crazy
Amber, on October 3, 2021 at 7:48 AM

My future in-laws are very traditional in that they believe the bride’s family should pay for all things wedding (except the rehearsal dinner). My parents were not expecting this and I have limited...

Ashley, Oct 14, 2021 12 2,554
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We said no kids at our small wedding and had to compromise for family traveling across the country. Are we being unreasonable for not compromising aga
Carriescott, on October 6, 2021 at 1:02 PM

My fiance and I are getting married in January in the mountains, it's a 2 night stay at our venue (the night before the wedding and the night of the wedding), an evening wedding, and then our...

Jacks, Oct 14, 2021 8 698
Chloe
Kid-free wedding misunderstanding
Chloe, on October 7, 2021 at 11:56 AM

We're having a child-free wedding. It's partly because we don't want to cater to over 30 children that would come with our guests, and partly because the venue we've chosen is dangerous (open fires...

Jacks, Oct 13, 2021 31 1,935
Lindsay
Judgment from others about length of relationship?
Lindsay, on October 5, 2021 at 12:34 PM

Has anyone come into judgment from others about the length of your relationship before getting engaged? I wish everyone could just be happy for each other and trust that the person knows what’s best...

Susan, Oct 13, 2021 18 1,498
mrswinteriscoming
How do i communicate to my family that their expectations are too high?
mrswinteriscoming, on October 12, 2021 at 6:51 PM

FH and I come from vastly different backgrounds - I come from a family that is all up in each others' business and we are loud and boisterous and spend lots and lots of time together whereas he grew...

Eniale, Oct 13, 2021 6 692
Chloe
Mother in law... again :)
Chloe, on October 12, 2021 at 4:01 AM

So apparently I too have a MFIL problem... Who would have thought. Anyway, my mom died not so long ago and it's been a bit hard, planning this wedding without her. My FMIL is really great and we...

Chloe, Oct 13, 2021 10 787
Lisa
Mother in law dilemma
Lisa, on October 10, 2021 at 3:07 AM

My fiancé and I have been engaged for about a year and a half, and when I first met his mother, we got along great. I mean we went to her house for Sunday dinner, Christmas gift exchange, you name it....

Lisa, Oct 12, 2021 13 550 1
Tamia
Two Middle and Two last names?? Ugh!
Tamia, on October 7, 2021 at 3:17 PM

So I need help lol! I am trying to decide on how to arrange my name. I have two middle names and I like both of them, therefore, I don't really want to get rid of either. I also want to keep my...

Rebecca, Oct 12, 2021 7 763
Mikala
Maid of honor trouble
Mikala, on May 21, 2021 at 7:07 PM

Someone help!!! I’m having MAJOR issues with my maid of honor, she recently had a baby, maybe 2 months ago, and my wedding is in October, I let her know beforehand that our wedding is a child free...

Jacklyn, Oct 11, 2021 24 2,651
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i am engaged and my parents don’t approve, for a variety of reasons.
Kena, on October 7, 2021 at 8:21 PM

My SO and I have been together since I was 14, him 15, and we are now 20 and 21. We have lived together since I went to college (2 years ago) and got engaged last month. My parents do not approve and...

Allie, Oct 9, 2021 8 1,569
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Husband's Dad Passed Away 3 Days After Wedding
AT, on October 6, 2021 at 8:16 PM

My hubby and I got married this Thursday and just got back from our wedding weekend. It was an amazing experience and went very well. Hubby's father was an alcoholic, and although we first invited him...

CountryBride, Oct 8, 2021 4 807
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Bridesmaid (future Sister in Law) Drop Out
Mackenzie, on October 4, 2021 at 1:13 PM

Hello all! I’m getting married October 16th, 2021, which is right around the corner. My future sister in law who was my bridesmaid (no longer) decided to drop a bomb on my family yesterday, October...

Vicky, Oct 7, 2021 10 741
Lee
No support from In-laws
Lee, on October 6, 2021 at 7:59 PM

We will be getting married tomorrow, but I feel sad. My mother and father in law won’t be there. They never asked to come nor have called to show support. It hurts. They showed up for their other sons...

Vicky, Oct 7, 2021 5 312
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Not inviting my mom to go wedding dress shopping
Kylie, on October 4, 2021 at 1:15 PM

Backstory: So my mom and I had an okay relationship until about 9 months ago. She was very unhappy when I moved in with my now fiancé in January and, although he asked her and included her in the...

Shannon, Oct 4, 2021 7 1,780
Samantha
I'm excited to marry fh but not about navigating the holiday season.
Samantha, on October 3, 2021 at 1:14 PM

I love my FH but one thing I am not looking forward to as a married couple is navigating the holiday season, which is normally one of my favorite times of the year since my birthday is right before...

Jessi, Oct 4, 2021 16 828
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Inviting half-siblings to tiny wedding
Kate, on June 17, 2020 at 12:44 PM

Hey y'all. Like many people here we had to postpone our big wedding due to COVID. We are now planning a tiny ceremony and reception (we invited 17 people total) for our original date and then...

T, Oct 2, 2021 12 1,474
Jenn
What does this even mean😞
Jenn, on July 19, 2021 at 5:58 PM

I have been engaged for going on four years. As of lately he makes comments regarding NOT getting married and wants nothing to do with the topic. When I finally get him to say something, his responses...

Chelsea, Oct 2, 2021 53 1,916
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They changed the date. What to do.
Deb, on September 27, 2021 at 12:46 PM

We are invited to a close friend’s wedding in Europe in March. Flights are purchased, hotels are booked and time off from work arranged. They just changed the date to the week before Christmas. The...

Emilia, Oct 2, 2021 17 984 2
Courtney
Controlling and Anxious Mother - help
Courtney, on September 27, 2021 at 2:58 PM

Hi there! Dealing with a bit of a family issue. My mom and I have a close relationship, but there has always been some clashing between us (as mothers and daughters often do - nothing serious)....

Courtney, Oct 1, 2021 13 1,243 1
Sierra
Rethinking plans
Sierra, on September 28, 2021 at 10:34 PM

My fiancé and I got engaged this January and we are marrying August 20, 2022. We live in Maine, which is a tourism-heavy state and a popular place for destination weddings. Because of this and the...

Rosilus, Sep 30, 2021 14 713 1
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