We're having a child-free wedding. It's partly because we don't want to cater to over 30 children that would come with our guests, and partly because the venue we've chosen is dangerous (open fires everywhere). There are other reasons, too, but we've communicated clearly in our STDs and also in person that it's an adults-only event.
Our venue (which is also a hotel) sent me a list of rooms booked by our guests - the deadline for the hotel room block was this Monday if guests wanted to get a room with our special discount. And I've noticed that some guests booked rooms for themselves and their kids. All but two are guests from FHs family... Two of the kids (aged 1 and eleven) we knew about and agreed that their parents could bring them because they'll be flying from the US and staying in Europe for a few weeks after the wedding, the baby is going to be sleeping in the room and the 11 yo is not a bother. That still leaves us with 5 unannounced kids aged between 3 and 8 that we haven't planned on and - more importantly - don't want to accommodate. There is no option that the parents are just taking them with them to leave them in their rooms - this is an "event hotel" we've hired exclusively for that weekend, so even the meals are only provided for our wedding guests, and there are no other options nearby (nearest city is 3km away).
What do I do? Do I approach the parents to tell them I've noticed that they've included their children in the room reservations? Or do I sit tight and do nothing and keep planning our adult-only party?
To clarify: none of them informed us that they might be bringing their children. Our save the dates were addressed to the adults only and stated clearly that we've reserved 2 seats for them and that, due to our peculiar venue, the event would be adult-only. Our website has a whole section on the venue and also why we've decided to go child-free. You honestly can't get more clear. People seemingly just chose to ignore all that and I'm angry because that's just rude and I don't know what to do about it.
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