Anonymous sex poll - how often do you do it?

Yardiegirl- I have lingerie.....but keeping it on long enough for FH to really notice is an issue lol I don't get a chance to feel sexy in it, it doesn't stay on long enough

Hahahaha@ Tami...

That's why you have to go and pose in it in the bathroom or your closet mirror...

and my FH used to say, I don't care about lingerie...until I put it on and now he's like...why you put those panties on woman? you know I want to rip it off now lol

BTW, I'm not sure I ever thanked Ab Z for posting the swingers thread. Holy guacamole, I'm still trying to get through it!

Well... We do have a babysitter Saturday night, I suppose I should go sometime this week and pick up something sexy

It would be about time.... I have NO lingerie anymore... I used to have some but that was before I got boobs and hips from having a baby and there's nothing sexy about ill-fitting lingerie. Now I just have cotton underwear and like one lacy pair left because the rest of them ended up getting holes and I haven't bought new ones. Sigh, I need to step it up!!!

3 to 4 times a week!........ Gotta spice it up wear lingerie ....role play something lol

Or ~ when you go out to dinner ~ wear a dress or skirt and No Panties ~

that always makes for an interesting date night when that thought is running threw his head. (both of them)

@ kris ~ glad you are having fun with that thread

Holy turker burgers! THis is still going on. I do believe it may beat that "unmentionable" topic.

Kris....I remember that original post re swingers very well. I found it to be quite informative.

Hayley....Now, I know why I love you. LMAO

No panties does it all the time!!

You ever pick up your husband from somewhere in the classic trench coat with nothing underneath or something skimpy underneath??

Works every time!

Oh mylanta!

Now for anyone reading the swingers thread - are some people saying their marriage is "stronger than a normal marriage" b/c they're able to see sex as just sex? Whereas those who don't swing don't have a strong enough bond to be able to do that? B/c I'm almost getting that vibe from some of the posts and it makes me go hmmm. But I can't tell if I'm reading too much into it or being oversensitive. Sometimes I do that.

Analy linked another thread about open marriages in that swingers thread. Seriously it's going to keep me occupied for days.

Thank you WW!

With all this sex talk.... I wonder if there is anyone on WW that is living "50 Shades" in real life....

I just found out my BBF from high school is living the lifestyle - contract and all.

Well I don't know about constantly living the 50 Shades life but that book made me want to do some other things...

I have a friend that was blessing every inch of her house with her DH while reading that book lolol

Speaking of 50 Shades.... I bought a pair of Ben Wa balls like a month ago but haven't used them... Anyone have experience with these? I'd imagine they are NOT as intense as the book makes them out to be considering this girl could get off just by Christian looking at her sideways but still..

Hayley - NO! Really? Inspired by 50 shades or was she doing that before? Fascinating.

Yardie we were blessing the coast of southern Spain on our HM while I was reading that book.

Lovin this post! Very informative LOL

@ Ediekristen, it most likely is your antidepresants, hun. I was on Zoloft for quite awhile and had almost zero interest. Been off meds for almost 2 yrs and now im kinda outa control

go get yourself a lil somethin sexy & enjoy your date night Saturday!!

I believe before, or simultaneously...

She told me she was doing research about the lifestyle on line, and joined a chat group? I think? And was asking all types of questions. Realized that this was what was missing from her life and and she did her research she saw lots of signs from her past that reinforces that this is the life for her.

Found herself a master that she can trust. She says it is Amazing, because the amount of communication you have and the trust that you build just makes the relationship amazing. I watched the movie "Secretary" over 10 year ago, but I might need to find it and watch it again. She says how the last scene, with the bathtub, is a good scene on how wonderful it is to be taken care of.

50 shades did it for me......my dh better thank the author

Ours is usually 3-4 times per week. Most of which happens during the weekend since both of us work during the week.

Yes Amy G.!! You have to have scheduled date nights!

That is sooo important! We have date night every friday night. It could go from really romantic, to just dinner and a movie, to board games, wine and beer...to double dates with friends....a night in NY...or whatever...but it's a MUST...it keeps us looking at each like we did when we first met

@Hayley - Wow!

So does she have a regular job/life/friends outside of this relationship or has it taken over her life? This is fascinating.

Isn't it amazing the stuff you can learn about your friends? After college, one of my BEST HS friends finally admitted she was sleeping with our math teacher senior year. Oh no, she wasn't 18, and oh yes, he was happily married to a hot doctor wife and they had a new baby. That's how he got her over to the house, he approached her after class and asked her to babysit. To this day she doesn't think it was creepy or inappropriate, she feels like he taught her a lot and gave her a lot of confidence b/c before that she was really shy and kind of a prude.

I still don't know how I feel about that - I think it's way inappropriate but she feels like he helped her.

Obviously way different from 2 adults entering a relationship, it just made me think of it

Yardie, we do game night date nights at home too! Honestly, sometimes we have the best sex after hanging out in our PJs drinking Hennessy and playing Jenga. Even better at times than what it used to be like after we dressed up and went out on the town. I think it's b/c we talk more. Whereas being out and about, there's so much noise and distraction and we're being more social?