Anonymous sex poll - how often do you do it?

About 5 times a week.some weeks more some less.having a 1 year old doesn't help in that department..but we make the time..we waited for awhile when we were first dating but once it started we were like marathon bunnies up till the point i got preggers!

If it was up to FH, we would have it 80 times a day LOL You would think he is 18 y/o .. he is going to be 40 in less then 2 months ..

so now just when I am not too tired.. about 3-4 times a week ... hopefully after this wedding we will get to every day part ... since we slowly TTC the last 2 months but I travel too much for work, so my luck I am away when I am ovulating.. ahhh

I think we have a good, but normal sex life for two very busy people!

4-5 times a week. That could go up once our roommates move out.

Just about daily. Hollah! and boy does he ever make me!!! Just fyi I'm always the one asking for it lol

2 to 3 X a day

Well depends on our schedule- some weeks like this one, its been daily, usually its about 2 times perweek.

I told FH when we moved in together that I demanded a minimum of 3x a week preferably more and it has to be 3 different days multiple times in one day do not count as more than 1 one my 3 times a week scale. I think he thought I was joking at the time but now he knows better, when I was on bed rest and in labor for the last trimester of my pregnancy with our youngest and by doctors orders no whoopy it was hell and so was the 6weeks after... not sure how I'm going to survive the healing time after my histerectomy

When we saw more of each other, it was about 3 - 4 times a week. Lately with work being so hectic its around 1 - 2 times, which seems like enough but ugh, waiting 4 or 5 days for it sucks... I will say, the build up makes it pretty hot

Wish it was 4-5 times a week.

It used to be that way in the beginning which is weird cause at first we didn't even live together. I'd come over and occasioanlly stay the night or sometimes I would leave but somehow we still did it about 4-5 times. It continued on about the same when we moved into our apartment but then at some point our lives got busy, and we got different schedules. it's about 1-2 times now.

As often as possible.

4 to 5xs per Month....I know it's bad :'(

3x a week on average and that's still isn't enough for me!

Haha. Now this is something to start the work day with. I am cracking up. Thanks to Kris for opening the thread and I second Jennifer as well. You deserve an award. I especially liked your summary

As for answering the question. It changes from week to week. Last week was 6 times, but most of the time it is around 3-4 times a week.

Chiming in to let Jennifer G. know she has a buddy! My FH works nights too, and we have three days a week where it's possible for us to have sexy times. He has anxiety issues on top of that, so we end up getting it in 2-4x a month. It was a lot more when we first started dating, and then it dwindled, which I think is fairly normal. Really looking forward to the honeymoon! ; )

For the ladies with lower sex drive, I can feel ya. Since we have such limited availability, I've come up with a few ways to make sure I'm ready if he's ready -- KY warming and His/Hers are both awesome, and reading a little erotica to get myself worked up helps a lot too. Special lingerie also does the trick. Gotta make it work! [heh I hope putting Tim Gunn's voice in your head doesn't compound your problem]

Everyday..... Except during that time of the month. I would prefer every other but the Mr. wants it all the time... Some times twice.

Not as much as we used to.

1-2x week, too hard to do it with 2 babies under 14 months.

We used to do it like 2-4x a day

I'm also in the "not enough" category and it's something I feel terrible about. I am convinced it has a lot to do with being on anti-depressants or maybe my hormones are messed up since having my daughter but I am only 27 and I have NO sex drive. When we do have it, most of the time it's because I basically force myself to do it so I can please him, and once we get in to it I do enjoy it but I'm never like "I REALLY want to have sex right now." I'd say we do it 2-4 times a month, but usually on the lower side ;(

It also doesn't help that our (19 month old) daughter sleeps in our bed most of the time and DH works till 1am a lot, so we don't get too many opportunities either. Add to that the fact that DH has fibromyalgia and is sometimes in too much pain to do it.... *sigh*

For those who want to beef up the sex life....buy some lingerie....

It will make you feel sexy and him want to rip it off ;p

Impressive ladies, keep it comin'! (wait maybe a bad choice of words - bah! You know what I mean!!!!)

Kristen - make it work! lmao!