Anonymous sex poll - how often do you do it?

Hayley you have me sooooo tuned in...... and i love 50 shades

Yep, looked like a belly chain with a tiny lock. Something for her to wear and feel against her skin but is not really "out there in your face."

but, She did say that she is going to get a real collar.

I joked and called it her "chastity belt" and she said, "Nope, he has real ones of those"

Mind you all these conversations were going on while our kids were running back and forth from us and the play ground. So, I didn't get as many details to stuff as I would have liked. I'll have to drill her with more questions. Research, you know, for my WW ladies.

OMG I go to lunch and come back and the discussion has turned to truck driver threesomes! (No? Did I read something wrong? LOL)

I'm also dying to know about the waist chain. Is it like a piece of jewelry, ifsofacto, the "collar" would be jewelry?

@Yardie oh I forgot about exit 6! We will have this thread narrowed down to NJTP Exits that are approved for coitus.

Wait, so she'll only wear the collar when she's with him though, right? Or is it going to look like a little Tiffany necklace with a real lock?

Can we send you a list of questions to ask her? Inquiring minds!

Ok I don't do truck stops....but I will do a bridge underpass lolol

@Kris do you think Tiffany's knows their lock jewelry is used for this community? that makes me giggle!

She doesn't have it yet, but I'm going to guess it will look something like this???

Her belly chain looked something like this. A lock with a heart. But it was more of a square shaped lock. Right now she wears this all the time.

and I think when she gets collared, she will wear that all the time unless he takes it off.

Everyday and if we are able to, a couple times a day.

Hmmm. That waist chain is kinda....hot. Is it twisted if I want one?

The collar looks pretty obv though, doesn't it? Do you think she'll cover it up or just rock it and figure people will take it for a necklace?

I have a feeling it is a pretty obvious thing, and that is why she doesn't have it/wear it yet. But I know her, and she will rock it proud when she gets it.

Once she gets it, I'll post a picture of it.

and yes, ask me some questions, and I'll see what else she tells me.

Okay here's a question - what prompted her to research this lifestyle in the first place?

And how did she come to trust this perfect stranger on this level? I met my H on the internet and romantic relationships are vulnerable for sure but...

What I mean is, how does she know this person is not actually a sadist who's going to seriously hurt her once she's tied up? Maybe I've watched too much Law & Order SVU, but seriously - how would you be able to tell the difference? I'm sure there's a way, I'm just wondering what it would be. Did she get references? Background checks? Go on gut instinct and a checklist of red flags?

Does he support her financially?

Is their relationship exclusive?

If she met him on the street would she have been attracted to him? Or is he some old guy and it's all just mental?

Is there any possibility they're going to fall in love and have a 50 shades wedding? Do relationships that start that way ever REALLY evolve and would she even want it to?

I'm seriously fascinated.

I know some of these.

He is not old, He is good looking. He is 5' 10" (which is weird, because both her and I are 5'2" and always dated 6' plus in HS)

The relationship is still pretty new, so I don't think there is any financial support, yet.

He was once married, she was vanilla, and he had a slave on the side. But this is an exclusive relationship, he is only master to one person at a time.

and, yes, she said it was scary how fast the relationship grows, but it is because of how much communication and trust you must have. The best part is after their sessions where he carries her to the bed and just holds her.

I think it might be love. I'll keep you posted.

If you want some good reads, follow this, she bookmarked it on my computer before she left

http://rolledtrousers.tumblr.com/

*** warning, not meant for young eyes or work computers ***

Lol you gals are awesome! No prob Kris, happy reading! :-)

Ok, just to make sure, the truck stops and trucker threesomes were jokes. Just really creepy ones.

Wow, Haley. That's really fascinating. I can see that a relationship like that progresses a lot faster. As for the collar, it would probably be only visible for 50 shades reader of anything. Everyone else might think that it is a weird necklace or that she is gothic or so.

Wait Lizz and Yardiegirl. I missed the info about exit 6 and can't find it. Can you repeat? Lol

Edited to find out more about exit 6

We haven't made it to highway exits yet, but there is a nice dirt road along Mauna Loa in Hawaii, and we were driving a convertible and the weather was so nice...

Hoooooo, Ryan!

Is that where baby #1 was conceived?

Well, my FH is currently overseas in Japan, so about never! I haven't seen him in six months :/ The last time that I did see him, it was only for a weekend! I can't wait to be married and living together then it will be more like **** times a day to make up for this torture lol. I'm sexually deprived for your freedom ladies (; lol

Brittany, we salute you and all the other military wives too!