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I am 51 years old, and a mother and grandmother. My daughter is 27, and she has a 2-year old daughter whom I love more than life itself. So, 2 years ago I... View More

I am 51 years old, and a mother and grandmother. My daughter is 27, and she has a 2-year old daughter whom I love more than life itself. So, 2 years ago I became a grandma, and despite my worries about being old, it's the greatest thing to ever happen to me. Now, I am with the love of my life and about to get married for the first time!! I am from the SF Bay Area (all my life) and work as a legal secretary for the past 30+ years.

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May 29, 2021

250days 19hrs : 6min
How long is/was the part of the love story?
Raquel, on September 17, 2020 at 11:35 PM

How long will it be from your first date to your wedding day? For me, it will be 6 years.

Cristy, Yesterday at 6:15 PM 15
i got my charms!
Alma, Yesterday at 3:59 PM

I ordered these bouquet/boutonnière charms for FH and I (his dad, my mom). I am so in love with them! Just wanted to share

Melle, An hour ago 17 2
Enlighten me please!
Destiny, on September 18, 2020 at 9:41 AM

Wedding website? What is the purpose of this? Invites? Rsvp's? & schedule? Did your guest actually use it? Is it worth doing it?

Cristy, Yesterday at 5:22 PM 20
Two Years - How did you plan "slowly"?
Briana, on September 18, 2020 at 3:05 PM

Hey! I'm new to the community and totally excited to get to planning. We're shooting for Fall 2022 because we expect that dates are slim picking come 2021 with all the reschedules from COVID. Those of...

Cristy, Yesterday at 5:05 PM 7 1
Family drama and planning
Liz, on September 18, 2020 at 5:36 PM

How much have you given in to other people about choices in your wedding to prevent family or friend drama? What did you give in on and what did you not give in on?

Cristy, Yesterday at 4:54 PM 12
Ruined wedding dress. With pics.
Elena, on September 18, 2020 at 11:30 PM

Hello dear brides! So I decided to warn all of you and learn from my big mistake😢 Yesterday I picked up my dress and I went alone ( big mistake!) Dress looked absolutely fine at the front, I was...

Willow, Yesterday at 8:41 PM 15
Chair covers
Ruth, Yesterday at 4:17 PM

Help ! My venue provide chairs and tables but the chairs are nasty looking how would I use spandex chair covers without it looking cheap? Renting chairs is out of budget (way too expensive) thank you!...

Melle, An hour ago 14
Hannah, on September 17, 2020 at 2:04 PM

Hello ladies, I am needing help with a songs list for reception! Would like a mix of everything! What are your favorites?

Cristy, Sep 17, 2020 7
Bridal party of one
Chris, on September 5, 2020 at 6:34 PM

I literally have no family or friends; the guest list is just his relatives. We're also way too broke for a planner. Since the groom can't really help, I'm on my own for planning and set-up. I'm...

Sabrina, Sep 5, 2020 10 1
Rehearsal dinner
Emma, on August 28, 2020 at 9:51 AM

So the day before the wedding, me FH, our bridal party and my parents will go to our venue that morning for a rehearsal. My parents keep asking what we want to do for the rehearsal dinner. Do we have...

Judith, Aug 31, 2020 21
Early bridal shower???
Allie, on August 28, 2020 at 10:30 AM

So my fiancé and i recently got engaged in July, but decided to wait to have the wedding until 2022 as next year I graduate college and will be looking for a job and more time to save! I was...

Allie, Aug 28, 2020 13
Grieving and moving on
Shirley, on August 26, 2020 at 4:49 PM

After a long 5 months trying to figure out alternative wedding plans, FH and I are finally coming to terms with the fact that our wedding will never be what we wanted. If we elope now and celebrate...

Sharonda, Aug 27, 2020 32
18 days left in counting
Dover, on August 25, 2020 at 9:19 AM

The closer we get to our wedding day I’m sure receiving a lot of phone calls and text messages from people and it is starting to overwhelm me! As of today I will not be responding 😩😩😩 did we do this,...

Molly, Aug 25, 2020 8
Best Man stressing me out! Am i being unreasonable
C Well, on August 25, 2020 at 2:10 PM

Hey all, First off, I am new here, but want to congratulate everyone in here; already wed or just engaged, it’s great to see that there is still love in the world! This maybe long winded, so I do...

Taran, Aug 26, 2020 10 1
Postpone a 2nd time?
Alice, on August 24, 2020 at 7:18 PM

Hi All. I had to postpone my 4/11/20 wedding with almost 500 guests rsvp’d at the time. We had no clue how long this pandemic would last, so like everyone, we picked a new random date. We chose...

Alyssa, Aug 25, 2020 16
So people seriously do this?!
Nicole, on August 21, 2020 at 2:32 PM

Do people seriously not only invite themselves to weddings they haven’t been invited to, but also invited people as dates/plus 1’s without asking the bride and groom?! We’ve had BOTH happen to us....

Alyssa, Aug 28, 2020 35
Country music lovers! What’s your favorite slow song?
Sarah, on August 21, 2020 at 6:52 PM

Hi brides/grooms! My future husband and I are low-key, big country music fans! We are searching for the perfect first dance song. I want something slow, mellow and acoustic. Something along the lines...

Sabrina, Sep 9, 2020 47 1
Non-slow First Dance Song?
Doxie Mom, on August 20, 2020 at 4:35 PM

My fiance and I's song is "A Woman Like You" by Lee Brice. If you listen to it its more upbeat (but still romantic i believe) but may be hard to slow-ish dance to. Its the only song we really feel...

Rebecca, Aug 21, 2020 14
Kaylee, on August 18, 2020 at 5:49 PM

Hello! Our RSVP's are due on Monday the 24th. So far I would say we only have a little over 1/4 of them back. I need them for my one month meeting with our venue and for food purposes... Is it rude to...

Cristy, Aug 19, 2020 15
Vendor contracts
Roopchandwedding, on August 18, 2020 at 1:02 AM

Has anyone else drafted their own contract for the vendor? If so, how receptive were they to signing a contract you created versus the contract that they provided you?

Veronica, Aug 19, 2020 11