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Okay, so I’m so confused. As if planning a big wedding isn’t already confusing enough. 🥴 We are way over budget and I don’t know what to do in regards to hair and makeup for the bridal party....

A little backstory. My fiancé and I were engaged September 2018. And since then, we decided to get married in 2020 because we lived the idea of getting married in the new decade. So from 2018 to early...

Having a night wedding, outside by candlelight...fearful the lighting will not provide for great video.... not sure it would be worth the money. Any have thoughts or experience with this?

So I have booked my wedding for October 31st 2020. It is a lovely venue and I'm sooo in love with it! I've also paid my deposit, and booked my photographer and paid that deposit, and told the caterer...

So my fiancé and I are having a hard time with our guest list. He has more friends and coworkers invited, then I do close family and friends. I know we can’t afford to have all of these people invited...

I'd love to hear what you are gifting to your bridesmaid/what your budget is for gifts. I'd really like to do something personal and non-cheesy, and something that they can definitely re-use! Any...

Just got back from getting my marriage license from the Town Clerk with my partner. It was a super simple process and took about 15 minutes, but I wasn't expecting it to be as meaningful to me as it...

My fiance's friend of 20+ years got married a couple years ago I can't stand the idea of his wife being a BM. She's already told me she expects to be a BM and will be mad if not and that their...

So a while back I sent out STDs (January) my wedding is September 1. On two separate cousins STDs I addressed it to them Mr and Mrs and to family (each have 3 kids) after a while i kept thinkin about...

Okay so I totally don’t want to be the awkward arse and upset someone’s wedding. I know how stressful weddings can be but here is my problem. My husband and I are invited to a wedding and expected to...

Hi guys! I’m trying to order my favors rn and I’m not sure how many to order? Do I order per person or per couple? We’re doing a little packet of seeds with a cute inscription on the package ☺️

Do you HAVE TO assign tables, or can you just say sit wherever you want? This is really stressing me out!

Hi everyone! I am now at the point where save-the-dates have to be sent out. We have our list of guests and their addresses. Yay! Now I’m trying to not spend a fortune on the STD’s. Any suggestions on...

99 days How many do you have?

Hi Everyone! Newly engaged and new around here, but browsing for some insights and this seems like a great place to come for honest input. We are planning a wedding for the Fall of 2020, and not...

Wow, I cannot explain how nervous I am right now. I sent out invites on May 1st for our wedding, and the invites are trickling in, literally. We are having a small wedding (30 people) and we stated on...

I’m probably being so dramatic but my wedding is a little over a year away and there is SO much that goes into it. I have all these people telling me to chill and that I don’t need to be planning this...

I am out of the 300s lol Amy date is March 28th 2020 I'm so excited but nervous. How far are you away? What are your feelings. Just curious 😉