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Kelsie
Kelsie

I live in Utica, NY. My fiance and I have been together for a year and a half; 10 months dating and 8 months engaged. Ben proposed at Penn State at the... View More

I live in Utica, NY. My fiance and I have been together for a year and a half; 10 months dating and 8 months engaged. Ben proposed at Penn State at the bench where he asked me to be his girlfriend. I'm a music major and I teach clarinet lessons. I work at the Resource Center for Independent Living as an Admin Assistant.

Happily married 🎉

March 14, 2020

2233days 12hrs
Kelsie
When do you get nervous?
Kelsie, on March 4, 2020 at 11:03 AM

So, I'm ten days out from my wedding. I'm not nervous. However, I can't tell you how many co-workers have asked me over the last two weeks if I am nervous yet! When do you start getting nervous cause...

anna, Mar 6, 2020 32 1
Nicole
Picking Bridesmaids ! Help!
Nicole, on March 4, 2020 at 1:41 AM

Hey everyone! So I have a dilemma lol my fiancé has his best man and then two brothers for groomsmen (making 3 people in total)! Now I’m stuck because I have one friend who I know is definitely my...

Kelsie, Mar 4, 2020 11 1
Venus
Children at Ceremony
Venus, on March 4, 2020 at 9:06 AM

Is it ok to request that children under 13 not attend a wedding? I don't want crying and screaming kids ruining my ceremony.

Leaves232, Mar 5, 2020 10
Nicci
Small Wedding Advice
Nicci, on March 3, 2020 at 6:20 PM

Hello Beautiful people. My fiance and I are looking at a 60 person wedding ceremony & reception and found the most beautiful place. How do you tell other people that your having a family and very...

Katie, Mar 5, 2020 20 1
M
To cut or not to cut
Morgan, on March 3, 2020 at 7:19 PM

I really have been wanting to cut my hair lately. I’ve had short hair and I miss it. I am getting married August 22nd, 2020. I would like to cut it a little longer than shoulder length. Here are...

Danielle, Mar 11, 2020 31 1
Megan
Bridesmaid drama help please!
Megan, on March 2, 2020 at 7:34 PM

So I have 4 bridesmaids all were asked 5ish months ago wedding is coming up in june and everyone has ordered dresses except for one, who was hesitant from the start because she didnt want to spend 40...

Megan, Mar 7, 2020 21
Nette
Bridesmaids
Nette, on March 2, 2020 at 8:01 PM

Hey lady’s I’m getting married in June of next year! I was wondering how meany Bridesmaids y’all have and did y’all plan or planning a bridesmaids proposal something Special to ask them to be your...

Nette, Mar 5, 2020 42 1
Yvana
Umm advice needed
Yvana, on March 2, 2020 at 10:43 PM

Soo one of my bridesmaid sent me a picture of what she wants to do as a hairstyle for my wedding day and it turns out to be the same hairstyle i picked for myself. I informed her that its the one I...

Nicole, Mar 5, 2020 15 1
Alexandra
When to Get Nails Done
Alexandra, on March 2, 2020 at 11:34 PM

Hello everyone! We are leaving for our Vegas wedding on March 10. The Saturday before, on March 7, FH's family and I are all going out to get pedicures. I need to get my nails done, too. Is a week...

Theadra, Mar 7, 2020 15
Jacquelene
Fancy comfy Heels. Who's got 'em?
Jacquelene, on March 3, 2020 at 7:47 AM

Hello, all - I found my dream dress so I've started searching online for fancy heels. Of course I've fallen down the Betsey Johnson rabbit hole, but all of the reviews state the shoes are NOT...

Monica, Mar 4, 2020 7
Sylvie
The Tuxedo
Sylvie, on March 3, 2020 at 10:13 AM

If the groom can’t see the brides dress YET, how would he know Which kind tux to get? Or does it matter? Should I go with him? We went to one place and because my dress is white and it’s very detailed...

Kelsie, Mar 3, 2020 4
Joanna
Do you really need to get bridesmaid dresses 6 months out?
Joanna, on March 3, 2020 at 10:33 AM

I'm getting married in early October and I'm seeing a lot of checklists that say now is the time to start shopping for bridesmaid dresses. Is that true? When did you start shopping?

Jamie, Mar 3, 2020 21
Maitlin
Can i have my Cookies and Cake too?? (baker not responsive)
Maitlin, on March 3, 2020 at 11:26 AM

I communicated with a baker a while ago that I wanted some of her sugar cookies for my wedding and possibly a cake if she felt comfortable doing it. She said she was available and would do it, but...

Jennifer, Mar 13, 2020 6
Rebecca
Plus ones for every single single guest?
Rebecca, on March 3, 2020 at 7:29 AM

My mom called me yesterday absolutely furious because she’d gone onto our wedding website and randomly started putting different guest names in as if she were RSVP’ing and discovered that every single...

Tina, Feb 16, 2021 104 2
Amber
Wedding colors.
Amber, on March 1, 2020 at 11:04 PM

So im having a hard time chosing my colors. I mean i had them set and when i told others they complain or judge it and im not good with things loke that so i need help. What do yall think of wine,...

Kelsie, Mar 2, 2020 11
Nerissa
Seating the Wedding Party?
Nerissa, on March 1, 2020 at 11:15 PM

Head table or sweetheart table? I see pluses for both but I have never been in a wedding so not sure what bridal party prefers. None of their SOs are in the wedding party.

Krys, Mar 9, 2020 25 1
Marlie
Serving just cake or do a dessert table?
Marlie, on March 2, 2020 at 12:16 AM

Ive been going back and forth on what to do for dessert. I really like the idea of having a pretty dessert table with 5 different options. But I’m afraid it will cost to much.. is serving cake more...

MIWM, Mar 28, 2020 13
Erin
Please Vote Dress 1 or 2
Erin, on March 2, 2020 at 9:42 AM

I am not sure which dress I should wear. Please vote. I purchased the 2nd one (a brand new) at David's Bridal back on Feb 17. It was ready to be picked up on Feb 27. However, when I came to pick up...

Sierra, Nov 27, 2020 436 13
Allie
Bouquet opinions!
Allie, on March 2, 2020 at 10:12 AM

Hi guys! So I’m feeling super behind on everything. I just met with a sola florist yesterday. I went in with the idea of cranberry and white for my bouquet (no bridal party) but was drawn to the...

Allie, Mar 2, 2020 6
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