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Kelsie
Devoted March 2020

When do you get nervous?

Kelsie, on March 4, 2020 at 11:03 AM Posted in Community Conversations 1 32

So, I'm ten days out from my wedding. I'm not nervous. However, I can't tell you how many co-workers have asked me over the last two weeks if I am nervous yet! When do you start getting nervous cause I'm sitting here thinking, "no, I'm not nervous, should I be?"

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Latest activity by anna, on March 6, 2020 at 10:15 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    I never felt nervous.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    That is super common aha I got asked that a lot too when it was prior to my wedding. I don’t think I felt the nerves til literally day of
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  • Gabrielle
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    I got nervous the night before our wedding day, at the dress rehearsal and dinner. We both got major cold feet for about an hour because we were so nervous. But then we prayed together and talked together and reminded each other why we loved one another in the first place. So it all worked out Smiley smile
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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    I didn't get nervous persay, I was just ready to get it over with Smiley xd I think people expect everyone to get cold feet, but it just doesn't happen for some people. Me nor my husband had cold feet, but we did get a little anxious right before the ceremony just because we aren't ones to stand in front of people. It's great that you're not nervous, enjoy the last few days of your engagement! I hope your wedding is amazing Smiley smile

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  • Kelsie
    Devoted March 2020
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    Good to know! I may be nervous to see how everything comes together, but I'm definitely not nervous about marrying my fiance! I know that he is the one for me!

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  • Kelsie
    Devoted March 2020
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    I think that maybe this will happen but I don't know. I know my fiance is the one for me!

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  • Kelsie
    Devoted March 2020
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    Great idea! We'll pray together if we get nervous! We may just end up with excited nerves or nerves about how everything will come together. But we know God has led us together and this is what He wants for us!

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  • anna
    Devoted October 2019
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    I was never nervous at all until an hour or two before the wedding ceremony!! I had major nerves thinking about walking up in front of everyone and hoping everything went smoothly but as soon as I saw my husband waiting for me at the altar it was like I didn't even focus on anything else Smiley smile

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  • Margaret
    Master October 2020
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    If you’re not a person who gets nervous, you’ll be fine. It doesn’t always hit.

    I know I’ll be fine until the day of then once everything starts I’ll be fine again.
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  • Kelsie
    Devoted March 2020
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    I'm slightly nervous about how everything will come together, but not nervous about marrying Ben! I think it's a little weird for people to just assume that everyone gets cold feet or is nervous. I can definitely empathize with getting it over with. I'm so tired of planning and coordinating!!! Thanks so much! I'm so excited for the day!!

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  • Kelsie
    Devoted March 2020
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    That's what I'm nervous about!! Everything coming together and being in front of people! We are having a first look so getting to talk with him the morning of will help if there are any nerves because he's really good at calming me down and we can pray together. I'm definitely not nervous about marrying him!

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  • Gabrielle
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    Amen! His plan is always better than ours. And I love His peace about things when we surrender our stubbornness (I can be very stubborn haha) to Him. I’m happy you guys have certainty about your marriage! Many blessings!
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  • Pattie
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    I think i'm more anxious to have everything nailed down and to not have any to-do's hanging in the air. My fiance and I have been together for over 9 years and purchased a home already together, so I am not nervous about getting married. I feel like i have been given lots of curve balls in the planning process, and i'm anxious that there could be more.

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  • Kelsie
    Devoted March 2020
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    I do struggle with anxiety but when I know what I'm doing is right, then I'm fine. I think I'll be ok.

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  • M
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    Yea for me the nerves weren’t because of any doubt. I think I was just nervous overall about the idea of starting this new chapter since it’s a big transition
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  • Kelsie
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    His peace is definitely unlike any other! Thank you so much!

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  • Margaret
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    See, sounds like you’re in control.
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  • Kelsie
    Devoted March 2020
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    I'm a perfectionist and so not having everything nailed down is what makes me nervous. Any to-dos left over will stress me out to no end!

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  • Kelsie
    Devoted March 2020
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    This is so true! There is some much change because of this wonderful day!

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  • kymarmck
    Super March 2020
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    I wouldn't say I've been nervous, but on Monday I had a moment of "holy smokes we're getting married in 3 weeks lol" and then today I had another moment where I thought "...next week I can say 'oh yeah I'm getting married next weekend'" haha.

    I don't think I'll actually get nervous until the day of. Even the rehearsal I don't think I'll be particularly nervous during!

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