Discussions I've participated in

Our wedding was March 4th. Our amazing photographer gave us a verbal heads-up we would receive sneak peek photos in "about a week." We have yet to receive them. I know it's only been a week and a...

I'm not sure if this will get a lot of traction but my fiance & I are only having 70 guests our wedding theme is a gothic masquerade ball. We wanted a guest book idea I didn't want to get a book...

Just curious - for those that have already had their big day ..... did the people who declined attending the wedding/reception send a gift? I am OLD school, and it was expected to send something even...

Hey everyone, I have a question for those of you who have booked & signed a contract with a venue. The venue my fiancé and I picked has sent me a contract but it’s blank. I was wondering if that...

So were already married but our wedding was just my husband and i at a courthouse due to him moving across the country for the military. Well, we finally decided we actually want a wedding were...

Ok so don’t come for me cause I’ve read all the articles and I know what people are going to say about etiquette…. Anywho me and fiancé decided to get married a bit earlier than first planned ( our...

Did you all also deal with the majority of your RSVP's coming in at the very last minute? We have our RSVP's due Feb. 4th, which I know is still a week and a half away, but we've only had maybe a...

These are my favorite types of posts to read. What's the worst wedding faux pas that you've witnessed? What was the worst wedding you've attended and why? I'll start: the first faux pas is not being...

I’m terrified to go dress shopping as I have no idea what size I am normally. Basically, I’m 5ft 1/2 and 241lbs. I’ve always had trouble finding clothes, so I gave up on numbered sizes a long time...

Wondering if anyone else is coming across this problem, catering prices everywhere I look are insane! I have a budget of $4,000 for 115 people, which I know is a lot of people but there’s not...

What is the etiquette for inviting out of town guests to the shower (especially if we know they will not be able to come)? I've read some posts that say it appears gift grabby, which we definitely do...

My sister, the MOH, already booked an air bnb near a lake where the bridesmaids and I will be spending a weekend for the bachelorette party during the summer.. It's only going to be the bridesmaids...

Does the bride or the groom's name come first on the save the date & invitations? I've always seen the brides name first, but my mom said that the grooms comes first.

My wedding is September 3rd... My fiancé and I are split between what to do for wedding favors. Which would you rather receive as a wedding guest: A customized koozie (either with bride and groom...

This is primarily for the couples who, like us, are paying for the entire wedding themselves. I need advice and ideas, pretty please! My partner and I live in NYC, so there's no way in heck we were...

My fiancé is in the military and there's a slim chance we'd have to reschedule because of his job. I want to let guests know of this so they can buy refundable tickets if they want. What verbiage...

How many of you did multi day bachelorette parties?

So I am getting married June 2024. I have a childhood friend from middle school and we always talked about her being in my wedding. We went to different colleges and I met someone I now can’t imagine...

What colors would you have for a end of Winter March wedding?