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So at 7:30 p.m. the night before our wedding. I received a call from our cake vendor to unapologetically inform me that we would not be getting the cake that we paid for. We had asked for the cake to...

The mother of the groom is deceased. The grooms father will be attending with his girlfriend of 10+ years. Wondering how the father and girlfriend should be labeled within the program? If at all. “The...

I'm not sure what to do here...I got married on August 28, 2021 and have not yet gotten my wedding photos. The photographer contract stated we would have them between 8 and 12 weeks from the day after...

As of November 6, we are officially married! I can honestly say that even up to the week before the wedding - I wasn't sure it was going to happen! We had so many things go wrong that I started to...

Hi ladies!! So I would love suggestions or ideas of how to support the girls in my dress! A normal bra isn't an option not even strapless because of the back of my dress the band would show. I'm a...

Brides I need your help . There’s so many options for invites , it’s really hard for me to decide . It’s driving me crazy . I’ve narrowed it down to 3 . Can you please tell me which one . A little...

Hello everybody, I was wondering how did y’all send out y’all save the date? Did y’all mail our paper invitations or like make a website? Which did y’all fine better or easier? I’m trying figure out...

So out of my bridesmaids 1 is in a serious relationship. Now my wedding is 6 months away so if they start dating they can for sure bring a plus one. I’m having difficulty with my one bridesmaid who...

Can anyone help me find an age appropriate flower girl dress for an 8 year old that isn’t white? I’m leaning towards a blue shade for our December wedding, but almost everything I can find makes it...

Here’s my dilemma… my photographer is $2,500 (including both engagement and wedding). With that being said, how much is your photographer charging you? What do you think I should do?

Hey!! So as I navigate discussions with vendors and the inevitable question of budget, I’m wondering where, in your experience, I can save. I’m 25 and have never been to another wedding before — my...

I’m having a really tough time deciding what music to play for our ceremony. Would it be weird to have only instrumental music before/during then have an actual song for the recession? Also is it...

So years and years ago, people threw rice, birdseed, confetti, etc. For numerous reasons, environmental, safety, clean-up etc., those have gone by the way side. I'm trying to come up with an...

Help us with creative hashtags for our wedding! My fiancé’s last name is Throckmorton. Most people just say throck! So far we have#ReadytoThrock#PartyLikeaThrock

So I am not sure if we should do favors or not. My first original idea was to make cookies since I know wedding favors usually get thrown away. Now though I am wondering if I should get rid of them...

Hi all! My fiancée and I are having a friendly debate about alcohol and I want to gather some opinions. We're having a small (30 person) brunch wedding on a tight budget. About a quarter of our...

So it's a tradition in my fh family to do a blessing before the wedding dinner to bless the food, my fiance is looking forward to this, I am as well, the problem is we have guests who believe in other...

Our DJ is asking for a cake cutting song, and every one Ive seen suggested is just too cliche or cheesy for me. I’d love to hear what others have done for inspiration, my wedding is next weekend