Discussions I've participated in

This is more of a question for people who are already married or had their ceremony. We got married last September (during covid) and I HATED my hair. I didn’t think it looked bad day of but when we...

I got married June 24th and the day went well and was really beautiful. However, my hair looked HORRIBLE. I got it professionally done and it looked worse than when I do it myself. Honestly, it looked...

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I finally checked out venues down in the Tampa area as we are planning a destination wedding from Buffalo, ny! We found a venue we love for next year; just still debating...

What's your wedding month?? October was the most popular wedding month for several years in a row - but then Covid came and switched everything up!! What month are you getting married? Shout it out in...

Is it okay to have an uneven number of bridesmaids vs groomsmen? My fiancé has a massive friend group that they all have been friends since the 2nd grade and I just don’t have that. It’s causing me a...

It's been a while since I've seen a venue thread, so I figured I'd start one! What about your venue made you want to book it? Does it have a beautiful ceremony spot among the trees? Or an elegant...

Hi All, I'm planning my bachelorette party (yes I know the MOH is suppose to do that) and I want to go to Wine Country California. Half of my bridesmaids live in San Francisco and would not be paying...

So I plan on getting married June 24th 2023!! I’m sooooo excited!! But don’t even know the first thing about the wedding needs and what not!! And I’m stuck on finding a colour scheme!! Please help...

So tell me about cocktail hour and why you are or aren’t having one. I get having one when pics are after the ceremony, but if you are doing first look pics and other pics before the ceremony, why...

Just curious to know how many are doing buffets and who is doing a sit down?

Hey everyone. I just wanted to vent. I am super frustrated right now. We are just trying to make the decision of moving forward with wedding planning. We have been engaged for 3 1/2 years. Originally...

I am getting married in October. Over the weekend the bridesmaids and i picked out bridesmaids dresses. We started discussing the bachelorette party planning, and we tried picking what weekend would...

I started a new job in September 2021, then applied for and received a "promotion" (of sorts) in January 2022. Early February: I applied to college, hoping to take a course or two this Spring to work...

Do the bridesmaids pay for their hair and makeup?

My fiance and I do not have the money to have a reception and my mom suggested having no reception and just inviting all the people we planned on in the first place. I would also have no registries....

Who are you inviting to the rehearsal vs the rehearsal dinner? Bridal party? Bridal party and plus ones? Out of town guests? etc

I’m sure I’m over thinking this but just wanted some opinions on this topic! My fiancé is having 9 groomsmen and I’m having 5 bridesmaids, which is totally fine with me. He has a group of friends that...