Hi All,
I'm planning my bachelorette party (yes I know the MOH is suppose to do that) and I want to go to Wine Country California. Half of my bridesmaids live in San Francisco and would not be paying for flights only stay and food. I did the math and between flights (for those of us out of state) and stay it will probably be about $1000 per person. My question is, is this too much to ask for from my bridesmaids?
I do want to clarify that while it's customary that the bride doesn't pay for some stuff, I intend on fully financing my way through the bachelorette. Also, ALL of my bridesmaids make over $130k annual salary and have no children or debt. I'm a very understanding person and If someone can't make it I will not kick them out of the bridal party, but I would be hurt if they don't go because they go on vacation all the time (at least 4 times a year) and we are all super close.
I'm a being too pretentious?