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Alright guys. I know this is heated, so please don't come at me. My fiance and I have elderly relatives as well as several cancer survivors, and one guest currently battling cancer. We postponed our...

Hi all! My fiancé and I want to do some sort of unity ceremony during our wedding (tying the three strands, sand pouring, planting a tree, etc.). We aren’t super crazy about any of the common unity...

Our wedding is November 6, 2022 and most of our guests will be traveling from out of town. We’re putting our deposit down at Doubletree suites in June, and I was thinking of sending save-the-dates...

Hi ladies - I'm curious of your experience with guest lists and people whom you were on the fence about inviting. Did you end up inviting or excluding them and were you happy or regretting the...

My fiance and I are currently living in Washinton state right now but our families are in separate places. His family is from Kentucky and mine is from Canada. We originally planned on having our...

Has anyone else had issues with family members being negative towards you and your fiancé? My mom keeps being negative about everything I tell her I’m excited about with wedding planning. She keeps...

Has anyone else had guests that don’t bring gifts? How do you handle thank you cards? I was thinking about sending thank you cards to everyone who attended, and maybe just personalize the cards to the...

This is long, but it’s important I provide details to get the full picture. The friend I am considering uninviting is someone who has been a part of my friend group since college. We even lived...

To future brides like me... so like me im not a tipical bride im simple and i dont like to please people and our plan has always been to get married and have a long vacation with my fh and he likes...

I don't have many friends. My very best friend is my fiancee corny I know. My close friends are all in different states and I don't like talking to my family about certain things. So years ago I got...

Hello everyone. The wedding planning was going smoothly until ...yesterday. But "here comes the first debate" (not an argument, or at least, not yet): My FW wants to honor our 5 grandparents who have...

Hey all!!! Hope you all have been safe planning!!! Although my wedding is next July I have been questioning if I shouldn’t do the first look. My ceremony isn’t until 6pm. I would be getting ready with...

Where do you go for earrings? I’m looking for something that’s elegant. Prefer pearl, drop, small to medium size. Thank you!

Do you provide food for your DJ, wedding planner, photographer, etc? If so, can I get sandwiches of burgers for them? And on top of that, do you tip them? Thank you in advance!

Hello! Our wedding is scheduled for December 4th, 2021. I already know who I plan on asking to be bridesmaids, my two sisters and his only sister. All three of them live in different states and would...

Weddings are a lot of money but I’m curious how are you paying for your wedding? I was told don’t take loans out but I’m not sure how people pay for it all.

I’ve gotten a few questions from guests asking if it’s ok for them to wear jeans to my wedding. On the invitation we put “semi formal” yet we’re still getting asked and someone through work expressed...