Discussions I've participated in

How do I plan the ceremony for my wedding? Is there a certain way for the officient to marry people? which way did you do it?

My groom and his friends are wearing navy blue. Should the ring bearer wear navy blue too or a black suit?

How far have you all gotten with planning your wedding?

My partner (28F) and I (29F) have been together for 8 years, engaged for about 3. We were planing to get married next summer, just a quick courthouse ceremony and maybe a small dinner party after....

I love my grandmother and she's helping to pay the wedding just like my dad and us are doing. My grandmother does not want my fathers wife to come to the wedding because there has been some trouble...

Who went with you to do catering?

My grandmother raised me and I can understand her wanting to pay for my wedding. I have told her that I can pay for it but she insist on paying. Every chance I try to talk to her about something I...

Did anyone do a grooms cake? If you did, what was it? I'm struggling with his. I'm thinking about a car cause he's a manic. What do you think?

So I am an only child. My best friend is my bio dad and always has been. When I was 10 my parents and I moved into town and lived next door to my dads best friend. However, at 13 my parents got...

When I first met my boyfriend, I was well aware he was married to his most recent ex, but had no idea he was married/divorced before her. When I found out we were already talking, and feelings were...

I have found these forums to be so helpful and supportive - like a team of brides and wives who "get it" and truly want to help without even knowing anyone. That said, I've posted before about issues...

What's your biggest fear about getting married?

My brothers' girlfriend and her mom have decided with my mom and sister to throw my bridal shower. It is very sweet of them but they have already decided on the main guest list of thirty people, the...

I am new to wedding planning and I could use some advice. My sister was supposed to be getting married this fall, but she recently ended her engagement. My cousin was also supposed to be getting...

I was disappointed when I received a the "no" RSVP from a very close friend but gave her the benefit of the doubt. The conflict had to be something important, right? She also declined my bachelorette...

Hey guys I need some help on deciding who is going to be walking me down the aisle. My bio dad hasn't really been in my life and only showed up when I turned 20, I'm now 25 years old. My grandfather...