I love my grandmother and she's helping to pay the wedding just like my dad and us are doing. My grandmother does not want my fathers wife to come to the wedding because there has been some trouble with her. My grandmother want's my father to pay for half the wedding. Which the wedding is mainly coming from my fiance and me. My dad just gave me money for the wedding and my grandmother took it out of my purse and has hidden it. She says that she needs it, because she's paying for the food. Which is not true at all, she is a money hungry person.
I had asked her tonight about a different cake topper, she said okay buy it if you want but I hate it and think it looks really trashy. I just okay, and she yanked my arm and called me a bridezilla. I have been hearing that since I started planning my wedding because it's not her way. That I had gotten everything planned in a month and had a cow because I had it all done. I just recently finished my table settings and she blew up on me because I was doing them to soon. At least it's done and I don't have to worry about getting it done last minute. I don't know how to talk to her. She tells everyone that I'm a bridezilla. When I barley do the wedding stuff. Then she tells me that I need to get everything done now before it's to late, and rushes me to do it. I really don't know what to do or even know how to talk to her. I keep trying to explain things to her and she goes off on me. I've told her to back off that this is my fiance's wedding and mine. But she want's to be included in everything. She compares me to my cousins wedding and says "well she wasn't a bridezilla unlike you." I guess I'm just trying to blow off some steam on here. If you have any ideas on how to talk to her or even try and keep me from going insane that would be greatly appreciated.