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I'm getting married in 11 days! Any general advice? Anything you forgot and missed/had that saved your life? I'm also going to be out of state so any tips for that. I'm staying at my family's motel...

I've planned my wedding a total of three times, and when we finally cancelled because the reception hall went out of business, two of our vendors gave us nothing back (they had been paid in full!) Now...

What did/are you guys doing? I have baby blue ballet slippers and my dress, veil or headpiece can be new. I'm going to wear a pearl bracelet that was my fiance's grandmother's. Would that be old or...

We're doing a dual bachelor/bachelorette party with separate rooms in the same rental, but it's all one price. None of my fiance's friends have the money so he wants us to just pay for it. His best...

We both suck at anything decorative, and we don't like/can't afford most of the things we see. We finally agreed on a centerpiece idea and have pretty much been trying to build around that. The...

I'm getting married in September. My sister was set to get married in June but is now pretty seriously considering moving because of corona. She's always been beyond typical sister mean. As it is,...

The bra I ordered offline for my wedding came a size too small twice in a row so at this point I'm thinking the universe is telling me to get serious about losing some weight. I've been doing a tiny...

Okay, so last night/this morning I had a nightmare that not a single person RSVPed and since I had never given the venue details in the last couple weeks it was just canceled anyway. I know there are...

I can't justify spending money on a calligrapher but I don't want just regular handwriting on my invites. Has anyone bought a stencil small enough? The smallest I've found is 3/4 inch which is huge,...

Anyone willing to show me pictures of your dress with sleeves added later? I have a sweetheart neck but a pretty straight back. It's a corset and I'll be wearing a bra but I still don't think I'd be...

My hair and makeup girl wants to start 3 hours before the ceremony. There are only 2 of us but my hair is waist length and VERY thick. Is that actually possible or should I ask to move it up? ...

I'm doing a private ceremony and I swear it has been one of the biggest causes of stress and confusion because it's "weird". My question right now is how do I note it on my website? I'm using Zola...

I need to start buying everything for my fitting soon, and I'm already blowing so much money I don't want to try multiple times. What underwear did you guys wear/plan on wearing? I will (probably) be...

Where is everyone getting "getting ready" pajamas? I originally wanted robes and might still consider it if I found some that tied on the inside and out, but I'm pretty busty and don't want anything...

I'm having a completely private ceremony with a reception for everyone immediately following. How do I let my guests know on the save the dates and invitations?

Just curious to know your experience? What did you have in mind (silhouette, fabric, neckline, etc.) and what did you end up with and why?

I guess I don't have a specific question but I'm a little overwhelmed with planning. I've never even been to a wedding. My parents didn't have a "real" wedding themselves, so they aren't really any...

My engagement ring has a cathedral setting. Does it look weird having one raised and the other not? Do they make something that is also somehow raised? Does anyone have pics of theirs?