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Am i Wrong?

Danielle, on April 24, 2020 at 10:37 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 5

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I'm getting married in September. My sister was set to get married in June but is now pretty seriously considering moving because of corona. She's always been beyond typical sister mean. As it is, early on she told a whole side of the family I was having a really small reception and they weren't invited. Now she's looking at August. None of my family is going to come from out of state twice in a month! She has also said several times before and even during her engagement that having people watching them kiss and overall being the center of attention was weird. There are other dates available. Am I wrong to be PISSED?

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Latest activity by Kerin, on April 25, 2020 at 6:57 AM

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Caytlyn · on April 24, 2020 at 10:52 PM
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You get one day, not two months. You’re allowed to be mad, but she’s not doing anything wrong.
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Melle · on April 24, 2020 at 10:59 PM
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I think In this case you might need to be more empathetic. Because I’m guessing she postponed her wedding due to covid 19. You’re at a position where at least your wedding might still happen in September on your original date. Could she choose another date? Yes. You also do have the right to be upset but I don’t think this is the kind of situation to be upset about. I think your anger sounds like it’s coming from stuff she’s done in the past too that you’ve not let go
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Izzykern · on April 24, 2020 at 11:08 PM
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Agree with PP, we get one day, we don’t get to set aside a month. & it would be so hard for spring and summer 2020 brides as is. Your feelings are valid but still try to be empathetic toward her situation
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Roopchandwedding · on April 25, 2020 at 1:56 AM
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Don’t stress it. Your family will come twice. They will be pissed and she will hear it but at least it’s not because of your wedding date being changed. Have faith it’ll all work out!
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Kerin · on April 25, 2020 at 6:57 AM
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Sisters get under eachother's skin sometimes, but I'm going to guess she is trying to keep her wedding plan which means keeping the same season. Family will come twice. They may not be thrilled about it, but there is a gap between the weddings, it's not like they're a week apart. Don't stress about this. She may have said and done things to irritate you before, and perhaps she is being spiteful to some degree, but that's not your problem. Don't get worked up over something for which you have zero control. Just keep planning and let the rest work itself out. 💜
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