We're doing a dual bachelor/bachelorette party with separate rooms in the same rental, but it's all one price. None of my fiance's friends have the money so he wants us to just pay for it. His best man doesn't have money so he just decided to wear a suit he already had, not in our colors. Am I wrong to be upset? When you accepted you accepted the money. I'm even okay paying upfront if I'll get paid back, but not just paying everyone else's way and sacrificing everything we've planned when I don't have a lot of money myself and I have a whole wedding to pay for without anyone's help.