Discussions I've participated in

Has your fiancé(e) been carrying the weight evenly when it comes to wedding planning? Or are they not quite as involved? "My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am" - true or false? Next...

Final question!! Where did a getaway car land in your list of budget priorities? Is it an integral part of your ideal photography shot list? Is a nice ride home a 'need to have' or 'nice to have'...

Wedding favors are a fun way to incorporate your theme and to thank your guests for coming, but are they really a favorite for your guests? What do you think about wedding favors? Are they still a...

Move over wedding cake! There are a ton of new sweet options in town! Are you totally on board with the new trend of ditching the cake tradition in favor of other delicious desserts? Or would it not...

It's time to pop the bubbly! 🍾 If you have it! With tons of other boozy decisions like flat rate or consumption, top shelf or middle tier, liquor or just wine and beer - it can be easy to forget about...

This one definitely depends on your wedding plans, and whether you're having a hometown or destination wedding (or anywhere in-between)! What's your take on guest transportation? Is it an option the...

Would you be lost without a program as a wedding guest? Or is it too difficult for you to justify the cost for something your guests will use for 30 minutes? 🤷 Ceremony Programs - Need to Have or Nice...

Matching 'getting ready' outfits make for some really cute pictures, but are they worth the cost? Are they the gift your bridesmaids really want? Or, are the cute pics a deal-maker for you and push...

Rehearsal dinners have been a standard part of the wedding celebrations for a long time! But does this tradition need an update? Do you still need to have a rehearsal dinner, or do you consider it an...

Welcome bags are a really nice touch for your out-of-town guests! But do you now expect to see them at the room block, or are they still an extra pleasant surprise? Are welcome bags a 'need to have'...

While sending out save the dates has become pretty standard, you can't forget it's still an additional cost! What's your stance on save the dates? Do your guests really need that much advance notice?...

You're engaged - congrats!!! 💍 Let the celebrations begin! 🎈 Excitement is high, but just how crucial is an official party? What do you think? Do you need to have an engagement party, or is it just...