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Rehearsal Dinner - Need to Have or Nice to Have?

Lynnie, on August 20, 2019 at 12:05 PM Posted in Parties and Events 1 134

Rehearsal dinners have been a standard part of the wedding celebrations for a long time! But does this tradition need an update?

Do you still need to have a rehearsal dinner, or do you consider it an extra 'nice to have' celebration? 🍽️


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134 Comments

Latest activity by Emilia, on July 15, 2021 at 1:22 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Need to have if you're having a rehearsal.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Need to have.
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  • Michaela
    Super May 2020
    Michaela ·
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    Need to have! I'm asking my friends and family to travel, get a hotel room 2 nights in a row, it's definitely necessary to feed them

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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    Need to have! Everyone who is invited to the rehearsal is more than likely taking time off of work (depending on the day/time of the rehearsal). It's nice to be able to provide food for them.

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  • Elizabeth
    Expert September 2019
    Elizabeth ·
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    Need if you're having a rehearsal, nice if not. Our ceremony and reception are at the same place, a mansion facility, and we may not have a rehearsal. Our guest list is small and our ceremony will be brief-- 15min, 20 tops!

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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2020
    Samantha ·
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    If you’re not having a rehearsal then they’re not necessary. If you are asking your friends and family to take time to rehearse then the courteous thing to do is feed them. But you don’t need to invite out of town guests.
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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie ·
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    Nice to have. I kind of wish we had the budget or the time for this, but it just isn't happening. I'm sure everything will turn out fine.

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  • Haley
    Beginner October 2019
    Haley ·
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    Need to have
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  • Lauren
    VIP February 2020
    Lauren ·
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    Need to have!
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  • Tracy
    Dedicated August 2020
    Tracy ·
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    Need to have! Everyone invited to the rehearsal dinner would need to be there a day early anyways for getting ready early in the morning and such, so it's nice to get everyone together.

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  • T
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Tye ·
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    Need to have for the wedding party definitely
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  • Jess
    Expert October 2019
    Jess ·
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    Need to have. but we’re just having everyone over to our place for pizza after the rehearsal. we’re all very close and casual people!
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  • EmAbrams
    Devoted August 2019
    EmAbrams ·
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    Need to have. If people are taking time out of there schedules to come and practice the wedding the least you can do is feed them lol

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  • Future Mrs. Danger
    Expert November 2019
    Future Mrs. Danger ·
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    Nice to have. We are doing a rehearsal brunch and will then head to the venue. That way i figured everyone will get some sleep and not hang out all night.

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  • Lauren
    VIP September 2019
    Lauren ·
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    Need to have since we are doing a rehearsal! You have to feed your bridal party and thank your parents!

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  • Erika
    Savvy August 2021
    Erika ·
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    Need to have. I think it’s also a nice time to spend together with your bridal party as a final Thank You, for having been with and helping you through the entire wedding planning process.
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  • Jennifer
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    Need to have. We are not having a rehearsal, but having a dinner to spend extra time with out of town family.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    We're having a rehearsal, so we need to have a dinner after to thank everyone!

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  • J
    Savvy June 2021
    Julia ·
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    I think if you are having people come to rehearsal, you should have a dinner. It will be dinner time in most cases. It doesn't have to be anything extravagant though. We are just doing pulled pork sandwiches and other "picnic type" sides.

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  • Rachel
    Dedicated October 2019
    Rachel ·
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    Need to have. I feel like its the least we could do since we are asking people to come to a rehearsal and in some cases travel down a day early.
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