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My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am - true or false?

Lynnie, on August 27, 2019 at 11:39 AM Posted in Planning 0 180
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Has your fiancé(e) been carrying the weight evenly when it comes to wedding planning? Or are they not quite as involved?

"My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am" - true or false?


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  • Brianna N
    Super October 2019
    Brianna N ·
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    Definitely false, lol! He is involved somewhat, but mostly when I ask him for input. For the most part he is happy to let me take the reins!

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn Online ·
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    False. She's attended every meeting and we make decisions together, but she doesn't proactively plan things on her own.

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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    So false ahah
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    False. He has attended the vendor meetings with me and given some input. But all the small details are on me.

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  • Future Mrs. Danger
    Expert November 2019
    Future Mrs. Danger ·
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    False! Only when I ask.

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  • Lauren
    VIP September 2019
    Lauren ·
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    True! He is the one who cares the most. He is the primary contact for a lot of our vendors because he speaks Armenian and it is easier for him to communicate.

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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie ·
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    LOL! 100% false. I'll be surprised if the ONE task FH has gets done.

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  • Cyndy
    Rockstar May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    FALSE! Whenever I asked his opinion for anything he always said “whatever you want hunny”. I had to give him very specific things to do in order to get him to participate .
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  • Fmv
    Super October 2020
    Fmv ·
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    False. Hes attended vendor meetings and has given some input. We are still 13 months away, so he thinks its to soon to plan lol yea ok
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    False! He has attended vendor meetings, and given me his opinion on some things. But I'm doing the majority of the planning, with him saying "whatever you want babe" in the background! Smiley smile

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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·
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    False. He trusted me to do most of the planning which I was ok with

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  • Marianne
    Savvy May 2020
    Marianne ·
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    True. He has put in this input and contacted vendors to get some things done. I don't know if it's the control freak in me, but I overshadow his opinions sometimes, but he DOES help. He also took charge of getting our Save the Date magnets customized and finalized the wedding hashtag. Smiley ring Smiley heart

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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    False, but he really tried. He feels pretty bad about it because we’re a team but he just got overwhelmed too easily so I took over. He made a couple phonecalls for me and he helped design the cake with me.
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  • Kellie Martinez
    Super October 2019
    Kellie Martinez ·
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    TRUE. Smiley smile he loves all of the planning and talking about the wedding with me. he asks about the wedding everyday. he's excited

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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    True! It was even more evidence he is my person! Splitting the tasks made it so much less stress for me
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  • Meghan
    Super September 2019
    Meghan ·
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    True! We each have our different things we've focused on.

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  • Alyssa
    Devoted October 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    False!! He’s helped with some decisions when I ask for his opinion, but for the most part he’s like “whatever you want”
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  • Amber
    Rockstar February 2020
    Amber ·
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    Lol false, bless his heart. I torture the poor guy with wedding talk, but I'm trying to do better. Don't want to scare him off now! Smiley winking

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  • Erin
    Rockstar April 2022
    Erin ·
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    Hahahahahahaha false. When we got engaged, he claimed he wanted to be involved in the planning, and then I started planning and he wants very little to do with it.
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  • Hillary
    Just Said Yes July 2020
    Hillary ·
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    My partner helps and provides input when I ask him to, but it's mostly been on me to move the process along. He's helpful in so many other ways though, so I won't hold it against him. I'm not marrying him because of his event planning skills Smiley laugh

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