Activity for Rebecca

My husband and I got married a year ago and are finally having a reception/celebration in September. It will be at a restaurant (I would consider it upscale) in their private event room with 70-80 guests. If I were to go there for a regular meal, I...

My husband and I got married in a small ceremony last summer during the lockdown. Marrying him was one of the best things I’ve done, but the day was awful. We’d planned to postpone the big celebration to June 2021. This January, we ended up deciding...

Hello ladies! I’ve been working through the name change process and have managed to get my SS card updated, my driver’s license updated, and my bank accounts updated. My car is under my maiden name on the registration and the DMV (IL) told me I...

Ok, this is a weird one. We got married in a super small (10 person) ceremony on Friday. It was a lovely day and I’m so glad we did! My husband’s family decided last minute to fly out from California so they could be there. My MIL decided we needed...

My mom called me yesterday absolutely furious because she’d gone onto our wedding website and randomly started putting different guest names in as if she were RSVP’ing and discovered that every single single person wasn’t given a plus one. My FH and...

Has anyone bought a house while planning their wedding? We’re currently in a townhouse and had originally planned on starting to look for a house after our June wedding. We had touched base with our real estate agent to see what we would need to do...

My FH and I have been discussing what he’ll be wearing for the wedding and are currently leaning g towards a suit. We want him to wear light gray (June wedding) and he definitely wants a vest so he doesn’t have to wear the jacket all night. My mom...

I ordered my STDs last week and realized that I forgot to put our wedding website on them. I’m trying to decide if I should put a small piece of card stock with the website printed on it in the envelope with them, or put it on an address label and...

My mother is hosting our shower in March (I’m so incredibly grateful for her doing it!), and she double checked the potential guest list with me to make sure she wasn’t leaving anyone out. After hearing her go through and explain who she was and...

How far ahead is everyone doing their tastings? My venue is all-inclusive and says that we should be doing our tasting in March for our June wedding. I can’t help but feel this is cutting it kind of close (especially if I want to order...

My future FIL is in town for business and asked us if we thought we wanted everybody (FH’s parents, sisters, both sets of grandparents) to spend extra time before or after the wedding to “visit.” They’re talking a few days minimum. We leave for the...

My FH got my E-ring from Allurez. Within a month it had two missing stones and we had to send it back and fight them to fix it. We got it back after two months and within four days, it was missing another stone. My FH called to complain and they...

My FH is all for an Amazon registry. I would potentially be OK with it, but knowing most of my family who would be coming to the shower, I feel like it would be an absolute disaster because they would go rogue and either buy whatever they wanted or...