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1754 days agoGuest lists and RSVPS were the most stressful part of planning. FH & I come from asian families that tend to have 200+ of family, friends, acquaintances, co-workers, AND parents' random family, friends, acquaintances, and co-workers, etc.. We...
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1756 days agoTrust me - I understand that my wedding is not the most important thing in the world. I never expected people to drop what they were doing to attend. I get that everyone has their lives and there's no needed explanation. I get it.... then why do I...
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1757 days agoHave you ever had that feeling that someone wanted you to fail & in the moment, you're feeling brave & strong? Then the next day, you wake up feeling horrible. It's like those awful break ups where you feel like you got it and then the next...
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1758 days agoI think my FH is being cheap but right now, we have less than 40 people at our rehearsal dinner. In our wedding party, we have: 5 groomsmen + BM (2 have wives + 1 kid - one of the flower girls) 5 bridesmaids + (2 husband + baby) 2 sets parents, 1 set...
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1758 days agoI'm looking for a head piece just like this. This is from the Monique Lhuillier collection for Pottery Barn for kids. I've seen a similar headpiece like this on her runaway from 2016, I believe. I've checked etsy, amazon but there's nothing close to...
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1760 days agoWe are planning to have our "thank you" speeches by 9PM - our first dance, cake and all that will be done by then. During our "thank you", we would like to do our "send off" with guests before we start with dancing. Reason being is that all our...
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1760 days agoMy FH and I are planning to take pictures with our guests when they arrive for cocktail hour. Traditionally in our families, the bride and groom go around each table during dinner to take pictures or when each table is called for the buffet, they...
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1760 days agoMy FH's sister and her family are not part of the wedding. FH created a facebook invite for rehearsal at the church and rehearsal dinner. She's only invited to the rehearsal dinner but he still added her for the facebook invite. I didn't want there...
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1762 days agoI've known my FH and his whole close, extended family for years through his cousin. Unfortunately, she was a toxic friend. When were first started dating, I was in the end stages of not wanting to be part of the friendship. She was manipulative, a...
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1762 days agoWe have a family member who is 18 years old- she has been with her boyfriend for maybe 2 years. They live far from us so we don’t see her often. We’ve just met him once. We want an intimate wedding so we did not invite him. (There’s a lot of singles...
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1765 days agoI found a selfie frame clearance item at my local whole foods. I had to get it. My FH and I are both Asian and let me tell you - Asians LOVE pictures and taking pictures. Our plan is to have our cocktail hour on the outdoor patio. Traditionally, we...
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1765 days agoSomeone suggested a GREAT idea where I can print two templates on each side of my poster board. We'll be having our ceremony in church and that one will simply say, "welcome to our ceremony". I was hoping to keep it the same for the reception but we...
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1765 days agoFlower Girl Dress Above the is the link for my flower girl dresses. It's ivory with champagne and I'm looking for a "reasonably cost" headpiece on amazon. I don't want flowers, just more bling that will accentuate the champagne in the dress. The...
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1766 days agoI'm not the same person I was when I was in my 20's. I'm in my early 30's and I've had to let go of a lot of "friendships" that were not good for me. I was such a doormat. I saw the world with 100% rose-colored glasses and assumed people were the...
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1766 days agoOne of the issues I've been dealing with (as far as wedding planing goes) has been the guest list. One of FH's family believes in "the more the merrier". We disagree. My FH and I have been working diligently on creating a guest list with "few and...
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1766 days agoFor those who believe in energy, law of attraction, or feng shui - what are some things that will bring good energy to your wedding day? I watched some shows on feng shui and home renovations. For example - one woman still had pictures of her ex...