Discussions by The Sealpups

We are living at my parents now- still saving up for that house. Here’s my situation - I just finished grad school and have been working and job hunting. Most of the time my mom cooks and my husband...

My mom is a control freak- always has been. She’s the oldest of brothers and has this entitlement attitude and has to give unsolicited advice. She means well but most of the time, I think it’s from...

We asked for an unplugged ceremony and that did not work. We got our pics back from the photographer and are only giving 1-2 printed pics to people in our wedding party. Our photographer ask that if a...

We had an unplugged ceremony and of course, no one listened and a few people took pictures and posted them on social media. Husband and I don’t post often but we thought we deserved to be the first...

Husband and I were really strict with pictures. We requested for an unplugged ceremony (no one listened, of course), so there were pictures being posted on social media right after the ceremony. I...

I’m small/short, 5’1. Had PCOS & hypothyroid and was lucky enough to reverse it with keto since last year (before I was engaged). I’m a bit curvy and have lost tummy fat. (Thanks to my PCOS, I...

We got married in September and will be sending our "thank yous" in October (with our wedding picture). I'm looking at Christmas cards and there are some nice ones that say something like, "The FIRST...

We've been married for a month today! Yay! I was planner and day-of coordinator (didn't realize the church and venue coordinators were different - they were almost absent throughout), so when it came...

I aim high but understand that things aren't perfect. I'm very flexible and find a way to justify why things happened. My Buddhist friend told me, "things that happen are suppose to happen and it...

DH & I are in a unique living arrangement after the wedding. Within the past year, I graduated from my master's program and within 8 months, we were engaged & married. I'm currently going...

We had a custom order cake topper and it came a week too late. Needless to say, I was very bummed. I'm a flexible "Type-A"; I get that things will not be perfect but I aim too high sometimes. Anyhoo,...

Now that the wedding is over, I have so many things floating in my head of what I need to do: 1. Name change: the guy at the marriage license place said to start with either driver's license or social...

It's been less than 15 days since our wedding and everyone is so anxious to see pictures or get a "thank you" card. My plan is to send "thank you" cards once we get out professional photos back and...

I was friends with my husband's cousin before we were dating. Unfortunately, I learned (the hard way) that was a very toxic friend (jealous, competitive, selfish, user, narcissistic). She piggybacked...

There were so many little details that went into planning my wedding & I don't want to forget it. For example: i made an infographics poster that says little stats on our relationship before we...

I had an Asian Catholic wedding & I should've known my "audience" better. My "10 steps ahead" of planning and timelines were not heard because people DID NOT LISTEN nor DID THEY CARE. :/ I planned...

I would really like to have a video booth more than a photo booth. I think it's a fun thing to look back on, especially when people drink and record various messages. There aren't many of these in my...

I feel like I've been doing the jobs of BOTH my vendor coordinators - church and venue. They have finally reached out to me the week before my wedding - is this normal? I know that there are other...

My RSVP was at the beginning of the month. I gave it 3 days after my cutoff to reach out to people for "last minute" RSVPs. When I messaged one cousin, she said she didn't realize the RSVP due date. I...

I'm a nice person - I don't go out of my way to be mean to other people. When my FH and I first started dating, his sister went out of her way to not be inclusive. The unofficial scapegoat was that I...